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Just Said Yes December 2020

Change the date cards.. yes or no?

Anna, on November 21, 2020 at 12:26 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 5
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I am getting married on December 5th and we originally planned a 200 person wedding but with Indiana’s newest mandates we have to reduce our guest count to 50. We have decided to still get married in a private ceremony with our bridal party and families present on our original date. We are postponing our big reception to next December and also doing a 1 year vow renewal. Everyone that was originally invited has been made aware of these changes as we are only 14 days out. I am debating on creating and sending out “Change the Date” cards. Are they necessary or should I just wait to send out new invitations closer to next December?

What’s your thoughts on Change the Dates?


Latest activity by Mrs. Spring, on November 21, 2020 at 7:45 PM
  • Hannah
    Rockstar July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    I would do "change the date" cards. Otherwise, 150 of your original guest list will be very confused about what's going on.
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  • A
    Expert September 2020
    Alli ·
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    I personally would not so close to the date... by the time you get them and send them out, it’ll be the day of lol
    Anyone with a brain will realize what is going on...
    I wouldn’t stress over it! 🤍
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  • Yasmine
    Rockstar October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    I wouldn't spend that extra money if everyone is already aware. I would wait until closer to the vow renewal
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  • Emily
    Just Said Yes December 2021
    Emily ·
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    We’re basically doing the exact same thing (we have tighter restrictions in NY so we’re all currently quarantining and just having our immediate families on Dec 5). I think Change The Date cards are a nice courtesy and a good reminder for folks of your 2021 date. We sent ours when we would have sent our invitations but, since you’ve still got a year until the bug event, I think there’s still plenty of time for them not to be a waste.
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    I wouldn't spend the extra money on new save the dates. You may want to send them electronic ones
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