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Anna
Beginner May 2014

Champagne toast right after the ceremony...tacky or not?

Anna, on February 12, 2014 at 1:40 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 10

Hey all, so I was thinking of having a champagne toast right after the ceremony...as in like before we walk back down the aisle. Bad idea? Cute? Tacky? Logistical nightmare? FTR we have a great caterer who will help with whatever.

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Latest activity by Nancy Taussig, on February 12, 2014 at 2:54 PM
  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
    We'llAlwaysHaveParis ·
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    Why would you do it that way? It's not a logical place for it, IMO.

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  • Shannon S.
    Master March 2011
    Shannon S. ·
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    I think it would be too confusing, and getting glasses to everyone would be a hassle.

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  • Piecesofadream
    Master June 2014
    Piecesofadream ·
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    Bring on the liquor!!!! I'm all about it!

    On a serious note, it could quite possibly be a little difficult logistically. Unless you hand them out before hand. I mean, people sometimes have water stations before the ceremony, I don't see why champagne wouldn't be the same. Just make sure you have the ushers and/or officiant remind people that it is for a toast and to not drink it right away.

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  • Soon-2-B Mrs. K
    Devoted September 2014
    Soon-2-B Mrs. K ·
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    Uhhhh maybe on a line of "why are we doing this now?". I've never heard of toasting right after 'you may kiss the bride'. I would probably wait to after you both walk back down the aisle... unless you want very unique pictures as everyone is holding glasses in the background during the recessional.

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  • Magz1018
    Devoted October 2014
    Magz1018 ·
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    My friend did that for her wedding actually. They handed out the flutes as guests were being seated and i feel like people were sipping the champagne during the ceremony (which was brief) but i personally didnt like it. I would say do it when you walk in after your announcement by DJ/MC

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  • Anna
    Beginner May 2014
    Anna ·
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    Thanks everyone for the opinions!! Smiley smile I read about it and thought 'ooo, maybe' because it is unique, but then I thought 'nah' so I thought I'd crowd source it-- Maggie, thanks for letting me know how it played out at another wedding. I'm going to have refreshment bins with sparkling water, old school Coke and Dr. Pepper glass bottles and beer (haven't decided what kind), so that should keep people hydrated xx

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  • Lynnie Pin
    Super February 2014
    Lynnie Pin ·
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    No

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    I like it. I've done it. Waiters hand out the champagne as people come in, and let them know there will be a toast. I usually do it BEFORE the kiss, because a walk down the aisle is expected after that.

    What about right after the ceremony but in the reception space? Hand everyone a glass as they leave and then gather everyone and toast?

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
    Nonna T ·
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    It would be fine Smiley smile

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  • Nancy Taussig
    Nancy Taussig ·
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    It has been done at some of my small, casual beach weddings. I think it depends on your ceremony location (in a church probably would not go over well) and the number of guests.

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