Ceremony!

Pricewise? Yes because you have to pay the officiant for their time and services regardless of the venue.

View Quoted Comment Oh ok because I prefer mine at a church! Thank you though!

Talk to the church and find out how much they will charge you. Some churches give a discount if you are a member, while others only allow members to use the building. But you won't know details for certain until you talk to the church office.

Do you know anything if boyfriends kinda investigate you if they want to marry you to see what you’ve done with other guys? Only honest answers please!

Depends on the church/denomination. Catholic Churches and some Christian churches require you to meet with the priest or pastor to basically do marriage counseling for one session. They also may charge a donation fee which can be as much as $800-$1000 if you’re a non-member.

View Quoted Comment Oh ok well my man needs to take care of that! Thanks girl!

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I'm not sure what your question means because the wording is unclear. But there is a lot to unpack here.

View Quoted Comment What do u mean?

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"do you know anything if boyfriends kinda investigate you" doesn't make sense. But it seems that you are concerned that your boyfriend is trying to somehow find out about your past sex life, which would be pretty odd if you've already gotten engaged since that would imply that he's already made his decision.

View Quoted Comment No were not engaged but that would piss me off if he was doing that kinda weird

View Quoted Comment I don’t know maybe I’m wrong but right now that’s how I feel

View Quoted Comment Maybe I’m wrong I don’t know how all this marriage stuff work u know

View Quoted Comment Are you planning your wedding before engagement ?

View Quoted Comment Doesn’t the engagement come first? Lol

View Quoted Comment Yes! That’s why I was confused because you mentioned not being engaged... anyways Good Luck!

View Quoted Comment Thanks! 😊

View Quoted Comment I know it’s different for each person, but I wouldn’t feel comfortable agreeing to marry someone if I didn’t feel like we were open and honest about everything.


To answer your original question. The differences in the ceremony isn’t so much due to the location but rather who performs the ceremony. I’m getting married at a park, but I’ve asked my pastor to marry us and he requires premarriage counseling and for us to not live together and to remain celibate, which for us we were already doing and committed to from the beginning, but I know many couples now would scoff at that. The alternative is to hire a non-religious officiant or continue to meet with pastor/priest(s) until you find one who doesn’t stick to the Bible as much.

View Quoted Comment Open and honest about the past or the future?

I know I wouldn’t feel comfortable marrying someone’s if I don’t have clarity for some things that I neee to ask him and I feel like he’s lying about! I have nothing to hide I’ll tell him everything he wants to know but he never asks me anything

View Quoted Comment Yea I feel the same way my boyfriend lies to me a lot of things that I saw and he denies them