Ceremony filler help!

My FH is extremely private and has a major fear of public attention so he is not excited about any of my proposed ceremony plans other than to have a handfasting ceremony. We aren't having a BP and so I am desperately searching for ways to make the ceremony last longer! So far all we have planned is the 6 corded handfasting listed on this website:http://www.nonreligiousweddings.com/handfasting.html FH doesn't like bling, pageantry, or anything that screams "LOOK AT ME!" Because we are such simple, laid back people we want the content of our ceremony to reflect our simple nature and the beauty of the 7 years we will have spent together before getting married. I'm sorry if this is vague haha!