We'll be having our ceremony at our tiny church on the coast, which is about an hour drive through mountains/forrest from the city most guests will be traveling from. We really don't want a beach-y wedding, and for convenience for guests (and caterer availability), we want to have the reception in the city. Since they're so far apart, we want guests to have the ability to pick if they want to go to just the ceremony, just the reception, or both.
For those who go to the ceremony only, we'll have a small gathering after just to say thanks, and then they can spend the rest of the day doing what they like at the beach. And for those just going to the reception, they won't have to worry about driving an hour to our church, killing time until the reception, and driving an hour back to the city. If people want to go to both, they can, but I don't want them to feel pressured to spend the entire day driving for us.
Our church also has a seating capacity of 90 people, and the reception venue 90, too. With our guest list climbing to 200 - most of who live out of state (planning on cutting list down to about 100-125 before sending anything out), we're hoping people will kind of sort themselves out by choosing one or the other.
Has anyone done anything like this before? I haven't heard of anyone and am issues trying to word it on the invites/RSVP cards. TIA!