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Jersey
Master November 2016

Celebrate their marriage or wedding?

Jersey, on January 25, 2016 at 2:12 PM

Posted in Planning 32

Okay, invitation wording question: On the template I ordered, it put "invite you to celebrate their marriage." But now I'm over thinking. Should it be "wedding" instead of marriage? I don't know why but I was thinking that celebrate their marriage sounds like we will be married already. Thoughts? I...

Okay, invitation wording question:

On the template I ordered, it put "invite you to celebrate their marriage."

But now I'm over thinking. Should it be "wedding" instead of marriage? I don't know why but I was thinking that celebrate their marriage sounds like we will be married already.

Thoughts?

I attached a picture of the format.


32 Comments

  • N
    Master November 2015
    NenaBear ·
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    Ours was something to the effect of, "request your presence as they exchange vows"

    I agree that celebrate marriage sounds like you're already married and celebrate wedding is just weird to me. Go with get your ass to NJ and drink with me ;-)

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    I'm with Jo on this one, lol.....

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
    annakay511 ·
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    Well, the point of the wedding is to celebrate your marriage. So I think the marriage part is correct.

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  • Jersey
    Master November 2016
    Jersey ·
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    Thanks!! I just decided to stop overthinking and leave it. It's one of those things that no one is going to notice.

    I only look at invitations for the date, time and location so I can show up on time. I usually don't even read the wording.

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  • Jersey
    Master November 2016
    Jersey ·
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    Rosemary, nope! Not a vow renewal.

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  • Jacqui76
    Master May 2016
    Jacqui76 ·
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    I pulled up my proof to see what it said... I got it from minted and I loved the wording of the reception part (brunch and merriment to follow) so much I couldn't remember how it was worded for the actual marriage LOL. Mine says "please join us for the wedding of..."

    I think either is fine.

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  • Nancy Taussig
    Nancy Taussig ·
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    ...

    invite you to their wedding

    ...

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  • Nancy Taussig
    Nancy Taussig ·
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    Dup post

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  • F
    Master December 2015
    Fiona ·
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    I like celebrate their wedding. But I'm thinking in terms of wedding being a verb, like "to wed" this and that person.

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  • Belle
    Super May 2016
    Belle ·
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    I think we forget sometimes that "marry" is a verb, and it's a thing we're doing and that's what we're inviting people to. In this usage, "marriage" and "wedding" are synonyms, so just use whichever you prefer.

    I used "the honour of your presence is requested at the marriage of".

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  • OG_MrsC
    VIP September 2016
    OG_MrsC ·
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    I think I like marriage better.

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  • LizzyC
    Master April 2016
    LizzyC ·
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    I vote Jo's version!

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