So my FH has a friend who will be invited to our wedding. She regularly wears a chapel veil when she goes to Mass. It doesn't go past her chin and just covers her head and a little bit of her face & is black lace. I understand the concept behind it, and I respect the fact that she wants to wear it when she goes to Mass each week. She's the only person I know who wears one so she already looks out of place.
I'm wondering if she'll wear it at our wedding. I know it won't look at all like a wedding veil, so I'm not worried about being upstaged. However, she's generally dramatic & I know she has a really hard time with my FH getting married at all as he's a widower. She really misses his late wife who was one of her best friends. It's just a bit of a mess. Bottom li'm wondering if folks will see her as silently protesting our wedding.
Any thoughts, particularly those of a religious and etiquette nature? Thanks in advance.