We are having a Catholic mass for our ceremony. We thought we would have the unity cross ceremony at the church, but the church won't make an exception for this. They only allow the unity candle, which we don't really want to do. How many of you are still doing unity ceremonies? I feel like the Catholic mass is really the "unity ceremony" anyhow. So, is it that important to have an object represent our union? If we wanted to do the unity ceremony with the unity cross, who do we have read the script? Where do we present the ceremony? Any and all advice on unity ceremonies is welcome and appreciated!!!