I'm planning a 100 guest wedding and I'm hoping for a loft or gallery venue that would let me have casual buffet style bbq. I have always wanted a specific restaurant(Smoque) to do the catering for our wedding because its delicious and affordable but I'm quickly learning that after hiring staffing it won't matter much. I'm trying to stay at $100-$120 a plate including rentals if you have full service catering option.
Its so hard to find a BYO-catering venue that I'm open to other style venues. Have you ever had good bbq at a wedding? What venue? What caterer?