Calling off the wedding...ex-FH is at his Bachelor Party

Honestly? It's time to let this go.

It is annoying. I get it. But there's a reason you called it off right? Because he's being a d-bag... Let him have his pseudo bachelor party... He may seem fine but men actually take longer to bounce back emotionally than women. I hope you go out & have a wild night with your friends very soon!

It sure would be easier if he wasn't there. I am so sorry you are going through this but he needs to go. You're never going to be completely healed while you are still living with him.

I appreciate the (limited) support but I guess I should have been a more clear in my original post. I was the one who called it off not because he's a terrible person or a D-bag; we're just not right for each other. He moved out that day and we have been extremely amicable over the past two months for no other reason than we don't have a reason to hate each other. Just because 2 people don't belong as husband and wife doesn't mean they're bad people. I let him move back in for a few reasons but more than anything it was because he didn't really have a place to go (other than a hotel) and he's very financially strapped. I've moved on from the relationship in many ways, there was just something about the bachelor party that annoyed me. I don't miss him or want him back (and he's well aware that him moving back in is temporary and he knows his strict deadlines for moving out) but I'm not a mean and nasty person and can't be to someone who I cared about and had a relationship with.

I'm sorry some are not that supportive. I personally don't think two months is enough time to "move on" if you considered living the rest of your life with this person. I once lived with an ex FH. We had no other options at the time. It can be done. We're still friends (or at least friendly). He is actually a great person, we just didn't work as a couple. I hope you still post here especially if it helps you heal. BTW, I didn't say this before, but it would bother me too (bachelor party).