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Kathryn
VIP August 2020

Cake toppers - nay or yay?

Kathryn, on October 21, 2019 at 9:12 AM

Posted in Wedding Reception 34

So as we're planning to meet with the bakery that will probably be doing our cake, it occurred to me that I'm not sure about the cake topper. Looking around at pictures online and pinterest, it seems like not too many people are doing the traditional cake topper. I always had my heart set one of the...
So as we're planning to meet with the bakery that will probably be doing our cake, it occurred to me that I'm not sure about the cake topper. Looking around at pictures online and pinterest, it seems like not too many people are doing the traditional cake topper. I always had my heart set one of the more traditional groom and bride toppers, but are those just out of style? Or do people just use flowers/names?

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  • K
    Dedicated June 2020
    Kaylie ·
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    Yes they have great ones! Im all about the keepsakesSmiley heartCan’t wait to see Smiley smile
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think this is fine. I've seen loads of cute groom and bride toppers
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  • Kathryn
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  • Ariel
    Just Said Yes May 2020
    Ariel ·
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    That cake is gorgeous! Love the topper too!
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  • Maritza
    Savvy October 2020
    Maritza ·
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    I don't think that we will be doing a cake topper. We will have flowers instead. I think this decision is personal preference. There are some really cute cake toppers that I have seen (traditional and newer style as well). We actually chose to not have a cake topper based on the cake we are getting. I don't think the cake we chose would look right with a topper (At least not the one that I wanted.) If you are wanting one, by all means, get one. It is YOUR wedding. I, too, have had to realize that I need to do everything the way I want. Enjoy the process!

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  • Brandi
    Dedicated October 2019
    Brandi ·
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    Now that you mention it, I haven't seen a lot of people doing the old school toppers...but that doesn't mean you shouldn't still go for it. There's nothing wrong w/ the classics. Smiley sexy

    We did a customized topper from Amazon w/ a chess theme since my FH loves chess. I think couples just like customizing their weddings & adding things that say "Hey! This is us! This is the stuff we like!" Even for the people that want to do the traditional toppers, there's the option to customize them & make them look more like the couple rather than a generic bride & groom. But, they still sell the original options at places like Hobby Lobby & Michaels, so obviously there's still a market for them. I say go for it!

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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    A cake topper is one of those decor details where it’s totally ok to go nuts with your own personal style! Have a vintage topper, LEGO pieces, a modern silhouette, Funko Pop or anything else that suits you both.
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  • M
    Devoted September 2019
    McKenzie ·
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    We didn't have a cake topper, it was just decorated with fresh berries and I thought it was perfect!

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  • Destiny
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    Destiny ·
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    My cake is a cupcake jumbo one so im just going to do a burlap and pearl bead banner
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    For our local reception, we had a 50's/60's theme and my hubby found a vintage-style topper for about $20 on eBay:

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  • G
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    Gean ·
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    They are both cool Smiley smile , it depends how u feel

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  • Kathryn
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    Kathryn ·
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    I'm in love with that vintage topper! I may have to poke my nose through eBay and see if I can find a score.
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  • Hannah
    Devoted December 2019
    Hannah ·
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    Yay! So glad you found what you were looking for! People on Etsy are so creative it blows my mind!

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  • Kimberly
    Expert October 2019
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    We had a Harry Potter inspired wedding, so i knew i wanted something different for the cake/topper. I got our from Etsy, i got a LOT of stuff from Etsy, highly recommended searching for some fun stuff there.

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