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Claire
Beginner September 2018

Buffet style reception dinner

Claire, on November 17, 2017 at 9:17 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 23

I am doing a buffet style reception dinner and can't make up my mind if I want the food to be served by servers or do it serve yourself. I prefer it to be served by servers so I know for sure I have plenty of food, but which is less time consuming?

I am doing a buffet style reception dinner and can't make up my mind if I want the food to be served by servers or do it serve yourself. I prefer it to be served by servers so I know for sure I have plenty of food, but which is less time consuming?

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  • bluevelvet
    Devoted October 2017
    bluevelvet ·
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    Servers - we did not have them and I kinda wished we had. Reason? Our food was a lunch buffet of pulled pork and yummy 4 cheese mac and cheese(among other things) The pulled pork was to be two sliders per person. Our wedding day was a bit cooler than normal, so people were PILING up on food n(comfort food!), like seriously the plates were higher than wide. The staff knew what was happening and immediately got another batch of food going. We has no problem paying for more food (our guest count was 42) but it was like whoa Nelly....slow your roll!! LOL!

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  • Claire
    Beginner September 2018
    Claire ·
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    Thanks ladies! We are going to go with servers. Hubby and I both agree it will be a lot less stressful. And I have a few friends and family who are willing to take time from being a guest at the reception to serve food.

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  • Bulbasaur
    Devoted September 2020
    Bulbasaur ·
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    Every time I've been to a buffet with servers, I've had to argue with them to not put stuff on my plate. They go on auto-pilot sometimes and just assume everyone wants everything with the result that there's a lot of wasted food. I prefer a self-serve, but they could have people monitoring the lines to make sure there's plenty.

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