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Megan
Super May 2019

Bridezilla Unleashed

Megan, on May 6, 2019 at 3:34 PM

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So I personally feel I have been pretty good (until now) with wedding planning. Even my cousin and sisters have commented that I have been more calm than they thought I would be. As of yesterday that has all changed. 1. Our groomsman, who btw decided he didn't need to RSVP to our wedding because he...

So I personally feel I have been pretty good (until now) with wedding planning. Even my cousin and sisters have commented that I have been more calm than they thought I would be. As of yesterday that has all changed.


1. Our groomsman, who btw decided he didn't need to RSVP to our wedding because he was in the wedding, decides to just now remember he has his kids our wedding weekend (17 years old and 7 years old) and decides to ask if they can come...so first off we aren't having kids at our wedding besides the ones in the wedding. 2nd of all...REALLY?! A week before the wedding?!

2. I go with FH, My Dad & 3 of his 7 groomsman to pickup their suits yesterday. 2 of them the pants are WAY TOO BIG, 1 of them the jacket is too small, My Dad's shoes were wrong, and another pair of shoes was missing completely! omggggg

3. Another guest decides to just TELL FH they are bringing their 2 year old because they can't find a babysitter. FH doesn't have a mean bone in his body and doesn't like confrontation so he didn't say anything so now I get to be the person to let them know that's not happening.


We never specifically said "adult only reception" or "no kids". I assumed (yeah I know hindsight is 20/20 now!) people would get the hint when we addressed the invitation to adults only and didn't say "and family" or "and kids" or the kids name, or that when they RSVP'ed online only the adult names were listed.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?! I just literally can't...I might loose it at any second.

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  • Megan
    Super May 2019
    Megan ·
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    Yep Men's Warehouse! I had so many issues with them and I wanted to switch but by that point all the guys had already been fitted so FH talked me out of it.

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  • Alyssa
    Super September 2019
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    Although these are all fixable things or things that are out of your control, it doesn't make them any less annoying!

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  • Katherine
    Expert July 2019
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    They might be to check the time and location or directions, and the last minute gift buyers. That won't get everyone, but you'll at least get a couple eyeballs on it, better than nothing
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  • idosoon
    Devoted February 2020
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    Missed that part and that's very true.

    You may just have to deal because folks may definitely bring kids

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  • Summer
    Dedicated June 2019
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    That is so frustrating! I wouldn't say this is bridezilla but assertive Megan. You have people trying to push you and make you do things that they shouldn't. You have every right to say no! I hope you can get the suits addressed. We have an issue with ours and 2 refuse to even try them on or get them altered so I feel your frustration! I feel your pain on that! I hope it works out in the end but plz don't feel bad for standing up for what is right!

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  • thisismrsb
    Expert June 2019
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    I knew it! After hearing some awful stories from a guy who works at an independent tuxedo shop (who advertised that they fix Men's Wearhouse's mistakes and was trying to make a sale), I BEGGED my fiance not to go there! He visited the shop I spoke to, but ended up going to another independent retailer, since one of his GM's uncle owns a shop. We told the first retailer about this decision and he actually appreciated it. As he put it, as long as it was another independent retailer and not Men's Warehouse, it was good!

    Hopefully, you were able to get this matter resolved. Good luck tomorrow!
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