To start off, my sister and I have never been close due to her behavior ( very vulgar and rude and will say anything to start an argument ). She was originally not in my wedding but due to the pressure of my family ( literally telling me everyday I need to have her in it ) I finally had her become a bridesmaid. She is always degrading and makes comments such as "Youre young so youll get divorced" , and when we got engaged it was the first thing she said along with my ring being ugly to her. Well it is now less than a week until the wedding ( August 7th is the date ) and her and I got into an argument because shes mad that I want children soon ( she is a single mother and never has been able to keep a relationship due to her behavior) and made a facebook post calling me stupid and saying im going to just be divorced next year which to me is seems very ridiculous. I showed my aunt and my aunt keeps telling me to suck it up. Im to the point where I am fed up stressed and just told her I never wanted her to be in the party in the first place, so she said shes dropping out and now she wont let me see her niece. Her best friend messaged me ( who is very nice compared to her) and told me she should still be in it but I explained all the stuff she said to me and she said she understands and thinks that we both will regret if I don't keep her in. I have found a back up bridesmaid that is willing to buy a dress tomorrow because the wedding is Friday. Should I try to talk it out with my sister or just go with the back up ( Fiances cousin ) and actually feel stress free the day of. We have been together for 3 years and engaged for a year and half and shes been rude the whole engagement. Any thoughts or comments will be super helpful!
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