Ok so I need someone to set me straight if I am being crazy. I occasionally post in a group chat with my bridemaids to keep them updated especially now since we are a few months away... but none of them respond. I am starting to get upset about it... normally I let these things go because I want a fun and easy going wedding.
I posted about 2 weeks ago about how I need to know everybody’s hair and makeup decisions because I hired people to come do professional hair and makeup ( they still have to pay for their own but I paid for the people to come to the venue) this is a ZERO pressure situation.. they don’t have to get professional anything I trust they will look amazing! ( they all are natural beauties) but only one of my 8 bridemaids/PA commented. I will add they have been asked 4 times within a 12 month period what they want. I have a lot of bridesmaids who change their minds constantly but I put in the post I need an answer.
Then today I gave the official update we are not changing our date, and that they have first dibs on hotel rooms before info goes out to guests... I left the discussion open for them to figure out if they want their own room or to split costs with another bridal party member... NOBODY said anything. As well as info on my bridal shower. Once again a no pressure situation because they don’t have to get a hotel room.
Am I crazy to think that they don’t want to be in the wedding anymore? I’m blaming covid and getting really into my head about it. Has anyone else had this issue? I don’t want to be pushy, and I don’t want to bombard them constantly... but I’m getting extremely worried. They all still talk to me but just not about wedding things. I swear I am not one of those brides who only talks about their wedding... I actual avoid it because the world doesn’t revolve around me, and people don’t want to know every little thing.
I have so far planned everything myself, my fiancé is ZERO help... love him with all my heart but he’s focused on work and I recently lost my job so I mean if the shoe fits? Am I becoming the horrible bridezilla? How do I get these girls to respond? Or do I just move on and they have to deal with not having a hotel room or someone to do their hair and makeup because they never said anything?