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Bridesmaids or not??

Elena, on July 8, 2019 at 11:50 AM Posted in Planning 0 11

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So I have been thinking about not having any attendants at our wedding. I want a very romantic and intimate vibe with a heavy accent on family and I want attention on us and not on other people. I have people that I can have as bridesmaids so it’s not a question of not having anyone. For some reason this just seems to be throwing everyone off though. Is it too weird ??

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Latest activity by Elena, on August 17, 2019 at 4:12 PM

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Allie · on July 8, 2019 at 11:53 AM
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I'm not having any attendants and it was one of the best decisions I have made in the wedding planning process. Much less to coordinate and worry about. My dad isn't happy about it. He doesn't understand how I could get married without having a MOH hold my bouquet Some people think its weird but I really don't think its a big deal.
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Elena · on July 8, 2019 at 11:54 AM
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I’m so glad I’m not the only one feeling this way!
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Lauren · on July 8, 2019 at 12:05 PM
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No you definitely don't need attendants.
But during the ceremony you might want someone to hand your bouquet to and someone to fix your train for photos (usually a Maid of Honor task).
You also will need someone to hand you the rings and be the witness signature on your marriage license (usually a best man task).
My cousin got married without a bridal party and she just asked one of our other cousins to sit in the front row and take care of all those things.
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Pirate & 60s Bride · on July 8, 2019 at 12:49 PM
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Nope. Not weird. We had an intimate DW and opted for no wedding party. No regrets.
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Jennifer · on July 8, 2019 at 1:23 PM
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It isn't weird at all! Go for it!
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Cher Horowitz · on July 8, 2019 at 1:38 PM
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I don't think that's weird! Plus, there's less potential stress without a bridal party!
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Maggie · on July 8, 2019 at 2:20 PM
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As everyone said, nope, not weird. Not even a little bit. Another benefit: you can save a lot of money by not having attendants (no need to buy them gifts, flowers, rehearsal dinner, day off breakfast and lunch, etc.).
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Jo · on July 8, 2019 at 3:30 PM
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It's totally fine to have no wedding party, it can keep things simple, save money, less for you to organize, etc.
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Melle · on July 9, 2019 at 11:15 AM
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Our best man originally wasn't going to have any. I did think it was odd just because personally I never been to a wedding where I saw that. But at the end of the day it really is just about you and your hubby so it's ok if there aren't people there with you
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Clíodhna · on August 9, 2019 at 9:44 AM
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Hey Elena! Did you decide not to have any attendants at your wedding?
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Elena · on August 17, 2019 at 4:12 PM
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Yes I decided not to have attendants. I am going for a very romantic family event vibe and I want attention on us
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