bridesmaids not ordering dresses?

I'm sorry but I would hate to be in a bridal party where i was given deadlines. I am a grown ass adult and can order a dress when I please and so can your bridal party. Give them the dress info and leave it up to them. If they don't get their dress in time because they are slackers then they can come as a guest. Don't tell them "order your dress by 6 months before the wedding or you are out." I honestly feel a little sorry for your friends who agreed to be in your wedding and believe me they will be regretting their decision if you don't get off their back about the damn dress.

I have one girl who hasn't ordered yet. If i knew her size i would just buy it for her. I was upset but, then i got over it. The if dont buy the dress they can attend as a guest really bothers me. I picked these girls because i love them. If we cant order this one we pick anther one for her. Who cares if its perfect. Not to step on toes. But, we dont know everything that goes in our friends lives. Also, as its been said before no one is more excited about your wedding as you are. My probably unpopular opinion. Lol

Eta- on mobile grammar/spelling

UPDATE: WAHOO I think as of today, four out of six of the main bridesmaids have ordered their dresses! They all took advantage of the cyber Monday deal

One I'm not too worried about because she ordered from Azazie before and knows her measurements. The other one I know she'll order it, but mail apparently hates her and won't let me send her anything (so technically not her fault - I blame postal service). I'm so happy to be able to breathe.

Today, my mother is bothering me about place cards. My mom keeps trying to take advantage of the cyber monday deals but I have to work... Ugh!