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simona
Just Said Yes July 2013

Bridesmaids in white ok? Colour Scheme?

simona, on September 12, 2012 at 7:40 PM

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Hi Ladies I really need your advice... I would love my bridesmaids to wear a white a-line satindress with a black bow around their waist. I really think that is such a cool and innocent idea. But two of my six bridesmaids refuse to wear white on my big day! Are they right? I thought if the bride is...

Hi Ladies

I really need your advice... I would love my bridesmaids to wear a white a-line satindress with a black bow around their waist. I really think that is such a cool and innocent idea. But two of my six bridesmaids refuse to wear white on my big day! Are they right? I thought if the bride is ok with others wearing white dresses there should be no problem... What would YOU do if your BM refuse to wear something youd like to have?

My other question is about a colour scheme? I dont like to strong colours for a wedding, so would pastel be ok? Or is it difficult to find suitable deco? Until now everything is kept in white (flowers, dresses, cake,...) but I think it NEEDS at least a soft colour touch. Have you any inspirational ideas? Please?!?!

Thanks in advance,

Simona x

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  • justine
    Super July 2013
    justine ·
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    SIMONA K! I am so excited! I am asking my girls to wear white! I love it.

    I want every thing in white and diamonds every where! So i am on board with your idea.

    Maybe try explaining your vision to your BM and just say explain that traditionally that is what was done!

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  • krisalicious
    Master April 2012
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    Isn't it amazing how powerful superstition can be in shaping traditions?? The human brain is so fascinating.

    I love the all-white inspiration pics, and I REALLY love that last inspiration pic Mrs Smith posted with the mismatched pastel and grey colored dresses. OMG I think that's beautiful.

    People thought I was nuts when I wanted my girls mismatched, too. Like there's some law that BMs have to wear a uniform from head to toe! It's a wedding, not the Marines!

    Attire does not affect the comfort of your guests. It's just an expression of your style. As long as you're cognizant of your WP's budgets and comfort level, that's one area where I believe you can pick what you want to match your vision.

    And thank you Jacqueline. Smiley smile Those girls are so pretty they would've looked great in potato sacks. And then there's my stinky brother. Pew! Smiley smile

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  • Kimm
    Master October 2012
    Kimm ·
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    I think your BM wearing white would be beautiful! It would be elegant and sophisticated.

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  • Spicydeene
    VIP October 2012
    Spicydeene ·
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    Hi Simona!

    I LOVE your BM picture and if your second picture is what you're thinking of wearing as the bride. Well, there is no question who the bride is and that bridal dress would def outshine your BM dresses. Your BM are tea length, if they went to the floor, I think I would have of an issue.

    On the other hand, champaigne IS a nice color - I had to wear it for one of my best friend's weddings.

    IMO, it's about what the bride and groom wants. If you want your girls to wear white they should wear what you would like them to wear.

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  • Michelle
    Master April 2013
    Michelle ·
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    I honestly think in pictures it would be boring too, add color just a touch, Ivory or Champagne would be amazing, just something to offset all the white!

    I see where your friends are coming from and I think they are doing out of respect for you.... everyone knows only the bride should wear white!

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  • Marilyn
    VIP January 2013
    Marilyn ·
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    I happen to love white bridesmaid dresses!

    I say do it! And its your big day, they will do what you want (the have to)!

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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
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    I don't have any issue with bridesmaids wearing white. But then again, I would choose as attendants the people closest to me, so if it really bothered two of the six of them, I'd be looking for another option.

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