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Bridesmaids getting ready separately and meeting me at church?

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Mary, on April 16, 2018 at 3:51 PM

My mom hates all my bridesmaids (makes for extra fun wedding planning). I was planning on getting ready at my mom’s and inviting all the BMs to the home for some pre-ceremony pictures, getting ready photos, and so we can all go to the church together in the limo. My mom refuses to let any of them in...

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J · on April 17, 2018 at 1:26 AM
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This is actually an easy choice. Your mom is being selfish and unreasonable, so she doesn’t deserve anything from you anymore. Like others have said, she’s obviously a toxic person. So you should not do anything to appease her anymore because she will just continue to walk all over you. So you absolutely just need to get ready with your bridesmaids somewhere else and don’t look back.
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Kierstin · on April 17, 2018 at 2:21 AM
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Why doesn’t Abe like your BMs
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Grace · on April 17, 2018 at 2:55 AM
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I completely agree with this! Don't let your mom ruin your day because she wants to be petty. The day is about YOU and YOUR HUSBAND. Not about her and her childish dislike of someone. Tell her that if she doesnt get over herself and just grin and bear it for your sake, then she wont be in the pictures. Point blank. Period.
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