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Colby
Beginner April 2024

Bridesmaids Dresses, match or mix?

Colby, on May 9, 2019 at 4:44 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 38

FH does not care, and the girls have all said they will wear whatever I want, its my day.


I cannot decide if I would prefer all my girls to wear the same dress in different colors

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the same color and different styles

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or mix it up entirely as long as its within the color scheme

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38 Comments

Latest activity by Colby, on June 28, 2019 at 5:45 PM
  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I had a hard time deciding this too. Originally, I wanted a couple shades of blue. Then it was so stressful matching what shades would go, and trying to figure out how to decide which girl wears what, I opted out of it. I picked a color, length and fabric from Azazie and let the girls pick their own dress. I have 9 bridesmaids and they all picked different dresses!

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    I'm a big fan of the same color in whatever style suits them. We gave each girl a different color and let them choose their own dresses, but I don't think this works with many color schemes.

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  • Kristen
    VIP June 2020
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    This is what we did too, but I did assign them colors that went well together (vintage rose, vintage mauve, dusty rose)
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    We are doing same color different style. I think this is better than same style different color, because most people would care more about picking their own style than picking their own color. My girls all have such different body types that I wouldn't dream of forcing them all into the same dress! I am sure they would've been fine with it if I had asked them to all be in the same style, but they all really appreciated being able to choose their own style. They liked the color I chose anyway so that worked out Smiley smile

    With different styles but all in the same color scheme, that could work too but I would worry that it may be complicating choosing who wears which color.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    We have the same colors lol

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  • Kristen
    VIP June 2020
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    Oh that’s awesome!! They go so well together! I’m not sure what we are doing for our GM yet because we also really like the dusk and dusty mauve color from Azazie
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  • M
    Dedicated August 2019
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    As part of their “thanks for agreeing to be my bridesmaid” gift, I put 4 swatches from David’s Bridal. The girls could choose whatever dress they wanted of those colors.
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  • Jennifer
    Expert October 2019
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    This kind of decision helped lead me to only want one attendant. But personally, I think as long as the dresses are all the same length, and the same color palette (you don't want a lot of dusty pinks and mauve and then one electric blue) it looks beautiful. Picking one or two colors you like from Azazie or wherever helps narrow it down so nobody gets overwhelmed with choice.
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  • Cheryl
    Savvy July 2020
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    Same color with their choice of style is the way to go in my opinion. That way it’s not too distracting for guests and photos. I’ve seen many people do the different colors, even my aunt, and while looking through photos I end up looking at the bridal party more than the bride and groom. I recommend all one color, or within the color scheme. It keeps the focus on the bride and groom while letting the girls find the kind of dress they love!
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  • Cheryl
    Savvy July 2020
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    Azazie is the way to go! I’m doing it for my wedding because my friend’s wedding that I was in we all got to choose our own gowns from there as long as it was the right color and fabric. I looooved my dress, and it made the process so easy.
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    Yeah! All my girls have ordered theirs and most have received them and all love them!

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  • Chelsea W.
    Dedicated October 2020
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    I love when bridesmaids wear the same color but have different dresses. Your girls are all unique- let them where a dress that resembles who they are while sticking to the color palette Smiley smile
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  • L
    Expert June 2019
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    I would recommend looking at photos on Pinterest to help you decide which look you prefer.
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  • Colby
    Beginner April 2024
    Colby ·
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    I have tried, it did not help. My board is filled with styles and colors :/
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  • Colby
    Beginner April 2024
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    If I do all the same color, how do you suggest making the maid of honor different?

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
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    Mine are picking their dress style but all wearing the same color. My girls are getting there dresses from Azazie (as others have mentioned) and they have hundreds of styles to choose from!
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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
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    Is there a specific reason you want her to stand out and be different? She will be standing in the front of the line which will signify she’s the maid of honor.
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    Beginner August 2019
    Abby ·
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    I love the same dress in different colors! Super pretty! 😍
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  • Colby
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    Just the way I have always known it? A slightly different dress, or color, bouquet. I did t realize it might not be a common thing...
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  • A
    Expert January 2020
    Abby ·
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    I love all the same color (maybe a diff color for MOH), but other than that I would like all the same color and style. Luckily all my bridesmaids love what I picked out... but I am paying for their dresses so even if they didn’t love it they wouldn’t be losing any money for an outfit they don’t like.
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