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Monica
Dedicated October 2020

Bridesmaid

Monica, on February 11, 2020 at 1:19 PM

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So one of my bridesmaids started flipping out on me and the other bridesmaids and then stopped talking to all of us. She’s one of my best friends and she’s never acted this childish before. I’ve messaged her a few times asking what the issue is and if we could talk and nothing. I’ve asked her if she...
So one of my bridesmaids started flipping out on me and the other bridesmaids and then stopped talking to all of us. She’s one of my best friends and she’s never acted this childish before. I’ve messaged her a few times asking what the issue is and if we could talk and nothing. I’ve asked her if she still wanted to be apart of the wedding and nothing. I’ve had other friends try to message her too and nothing. I don’t get the deal. My wedding planing is going on and she hasn’t been in bikers and it’s coming down to the point where I’m either gonna have to to replace her or cut a groomsman to even out the wedding party. I don’t want to do either and I don’t even know who I’d replace her with. I don’t know what to do and I can’t imagine her not being apart of my wedding. I’m hurt and confused....someone please help. This is ruining wedding planing for me.

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  • Monica
    Dedicated October 2020
    Monica ·
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    It does suck. It’s been a month now and wedding planing and bridal shower and bachelorette party stuff are in planning and she hasn’t been apart of anything since she decided to drop off the face of the earth and not talk to anyone. Her sisters are even mad that she’s doing this and are trying to talk to her. I didn’t even ask them to but they said she is being childish and rude and want to help. I hope it works bc if not I’m gonna just restructure my wedding party and either have 2 grooms with a bridesmaid or two bridesmaids with a groomsman. Not sure which would be better yet and I’ll have to rework my color scheme too. So hopefully it works out but honestly have so many other things going wrong in addition to this so it’s just adding to stress.... honestly just want to be done and married to my soulmate now I’m over it all.
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