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Bridesmaid-zila: Her Birthday vs. My Wedding

Private User, on June 5, 2016 at 7:32 PM

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Hey all. So big day is this saturday, super excited! This is more of a vent post. One of my bridesmaid's birthdays is 2 days before the wedding. 2 days before the wedding I will be: helping prepare flowers, finishing wedding favors, entertaining FH family, picking my mom up from the airport, and...

Hey all. So big day is this saturday, super excited! This is more of a vent post. One of my bridesmaid's birthdays is 2 days before the wedding.

2 days before the wedding I will be: helping prepare flowers, finishing wedding favors, entertaining FH family, picking my mom up from the airport, and losing my mind in general.

My bridesmaid is having a big birthday bash that day, and I told her me and FH would only be able to come for about an hour and toward the end of the event. She planned this birthday event last week. I've been planning this weeding for a year.

She is so upset with me right now. She told me I will only get her a little while and then FH gets me for the rest of my life and that she is moving away in 2 months and I'm being selfish and that if I was her true friend I would stay the whole time.

Ummm...no? Absolutely not? Have you ever planned a wedding before? No? Okay great then shut your mouth we're coming for an hour and then we have to leave.

/end rant.

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  • OG Brittany
    Master December 2016
    OG Brittany ·
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    Sounds like she is having a hard time coming to terms that you will be getting married soon and won't be there for her at times. I can understand both side, but she really could have picked a better day or did it AFTER your wedding. Just tell her that, unfortunately you have a lot of stuff to do, and that you just don;t have time to do it all. Hopefully she will understand.

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