Amanda
Dedicated May 2019

Bridesmaid proposal ?

Amanda, on December 4, 2017 at 7:35 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 25

So I've only seen one other person do this but has anyone ever hosted like a brunch or dinner to ask your bridesmaids ? I'm calling it a bridesmaid proposal party lol ? Am I being corny ? I just figured it's easier to have them all together rather than run there little gifts to them all seperate

So I've only seen one other person do this but has anyone ever hosted like a brunch or dinner to ask your bridesmaids ? I'm calling it a bridesmaid proposal party lol ? Am I being corny ? I just figured it's easier to have them all together rather than run there little gifts to them all seperate

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  • Amanda
    Dedicated May 2019
    Amanda ·
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    Thanks everyone ! Leighanna S it's very common here as well ! And yes all these girls have been my best friend since little girls -- they pretty much all expect it anyway we've been talking about it since before I got engaged lol and plus I was in 3 of there weddings just this past year - so they owe me Smiley winking (kidding of course) but thanks everyone for your opinions , a lot of people on here tell me to wait until 6 months before the wedding but everyone in my town and friends tell me I'm crazy if I wait since the bulk of the planning will be in this next year and I'll went my bridesmaids there as support and we all love doing it together

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  • Patricia
    Dedicated August 2018
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    I had a Wedding Get Together right after my Engagement where I asked each of my Bridesmaids with a gift, I did it as a group. This allowed them to get to know one another & begin interacting.

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  • hannahdee
    Super June 2018
    hannahdee ·
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    I think a bridesmaid brunch is nice and I'll probably do one close to the wedding, but I'd ask them personally in case they need/want to decline and feel awkward

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  • Madison
    Beginner June 2019
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    I did this and it was amazing! I did it around my birthday and called it a "birthday lunch" so they had no idea! I'll attach a picture below :-) It was also really cool and everyone got to meet each other and get the details all at once! I got them all mason jar tumbler's with their name on it. I highly recommend doing this!!


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  • Monica
    Just Said Yes October 2020
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    Hi, may I ask what you ended up doing? I have something very similar planned in a few weeks but everything I am seeing online is telling me I shouldn’t or at least ask them beforehand and use the get-together as a celebration for the girls who do say yes.
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