Hey y’all I need Advice.
I recently had one of my bridal party members let me know due to financial issues and work schedule she can not longer be a part of our wedding. The only way I found out that she was not planning on attending was because I asked how her new job was going and she brought all this to my attention. She was LITERALLY not going to tell me until wedding week. This made me text all of my bridesmaids and ask them all if they were still planning on attending. That’s when I found out that yet another one is having financial issues and cannot afford a hotel room and was going to also tell me wedding week about this issue. Long story short, she will be staying with me in my bridal suite with another Bridesmaid who is staying with me now also.
This brings me to my biggest issue. I have one bridal party member who never answered my text, and it’s been 4 days. She does not answer my calls and has not responded to texts. I’m on the edge and unsure what to do. She has been hit or miss for the last couple of years but it feels rude to me that she is not acknowledging me when I’m asking a simple question and so close to our wedding day that she is supposed to be a part of.
Do y’all think I’m being unfair at this point by giving her until Friday for a response? If she has not responded to me by then, I plan on sending her a text that basically says her lack of response or communication is how I’m taking her resignation from the wedding.
