My MOH (my cousin) and 1 of my bridesmaids are nurses. They both work every other weekend but opposite weekends. Originally, my bachelorette party was supposed to be 4/12-4/14 but bridesmaid had to work that weekend so my MOH changed it to accommodate her and then had to figure out what to do for her work schedule. Fast forward after plans are made, airbnb booked and we are talking about what time we will leave on friday morning (6 hour drive to Nashville from ohio) bridesmaid said she has to work and can’t leave until 2 or 3. What?? She says she didn’t realize we would leave that early. I’m just baffled why it would make sense to her to rent an airbnb for 2 nights but not get there until 10/11pm on friday...or why we would drive 6 hours for basically one night??? Sooo now she probably isn’t going, after the weekend to was changed specifically for her! Not to mention that my bridal shower and wedding are also on the weekends she works. She took off for my wedding but she probably won’t make my bridal shower or the rehearsal on Friday evening....or a couple of the other things going on for the bridal party ore-wedding (diy flowers at florist and getting nails done together)
I realize people have work it’s just frustrating to me bc she isn’t going to make ANY wedding events and I want her to be there! Also she recently went on a weekend trip and I know for a fact she left Thursday evening and therefore had that Friday off so I don’t understand why she can’t do the same for my bachelorette party? To answer the question I know is coming, she was really excited when I asked her to be in my wedding and her husband even told me (when she wasn’t around) that she is really excited.
Did anyone else have a bridesmaid(s) that didn’t come to any of your pre-wedding events??
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