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Bridesmaid flaking? Idk...

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BrideBelle, on June 15, 2017 at 8:19 PM

I'm not sure if my bridesmaid is going to bail the night before or not. We already had our bach. parties because it's what worked with everyones schedule...the night before we went one of my bridesmaids bailed and didn't pay her half of the cabin... THEN I asked yesterday if she has received her dress because everyone ordered online and she said "no but it should be here soon" & she ordered over a month ago. My maid of honor ordered 2 weeks ago and hers came yesterday. Another bridesmaid ordered the day after this one did and she's had her for a long time now. Should I be concerned? I'm already going to be short a girl--having two guys walk with her... if she bails I'm going to have 2 guys walking alone. I don't know what to do. I told her she might want to check in with the people we ordered from and she hasnt responded since. She also hasn't spoke to me since the bach. parties a month ago. I messaged her first yesterday & she was very short with me.

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TiffanyGomez2018 · on June 16, 2017 at 1:31 PM
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My bridesmaid bailed on my wedding and cancelled the day before my bridal shower because she wanted to sleep until noon instead of getting up at 9 to come to the shower.
I was so pissed I really didn't even care. The wedding I understood initially, she supposedly had to work and that's cool. She's an adult with responsibilities. But it turns out she lied and just wants to go somewhere on vacation with her boyfriend instead. Like, don't accept a spot in a bridal party if you're going to be a twat? I never even talked wedding talk with her because I didn't want to bore her.
I understand your stress! Definitely invite her over and see what's going on with her!
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