Bridesmaid Due Week Of Wedding

I agree about not asking anyone else. If she can't make it, an "uneven" wedding party is perfectly fine and pretty common. Azazie has maternity dresses that come in nearly every possible color, and most of their dresses are delivered in 4 weeks (you can track current production/delivery times through the website), so she can order fairly last minute (and do custom-sizing to reduce potential alterations). Odds are even if she's had the baby before the wedding, she'll still be pretty comfortable in a "maternity friendly" dress and if she hasn't she'll appreciate the style. You sound like a really good friend who understands the priorities in life events. The only thing you might do is let your friend know you absolutely want her to be in your wedding, if at the time she's up to it, but at the same time are fully supportive if now or in the future HER choice is to plan on attending as a guest. Since she offered to not be a BM, it's possible that's actually her preference, so I'd try and feel her out on that and go with whatever her preference is. Good luck to you!

I wouldn't ask anyone else. I would suggest she order her dress as late as possible and she can figure out the sizing for herself. I would also probably offer to her that she can drop out completely at any point if she's struggling with her pregnancy and can't handle it (just so she knows she won't feel immense pressure to be there if she's not feeling so great).