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Stephanie
Just Said Yes May 2021

Bridesmaid drops out due to fight with fiance.

Stephanie, on February 20, 2021 at 12:05 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 28

My fiance flipped out on me for no reason and also lashed out on my bridesmaid because she was there with me. It is completely wrong for him to talk to me or her that way and now she does not want to be in the wedding. I agree with her he has a short temper however I don't know how to handle. She...
My fiance flipped out on me for no reason and also lashed out on my bridesmaid because she was there with me. It is completely wrong for him to talk to me or her that way and now she does not want to be in the wedding. I agree with her he has a short temper however I don't know how to handle. She says she is looking out for me and that I shouldn't marry him but I know I want to marry him, she says she just doesn't want to be a part of it anymore. 💔😥 What do I do?

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  • L
    Dedicated August 2021
    Lw ·
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    Girl, dump them both and get a new support system.
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  • K
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    Kimberly ·
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    Probably not what you want to hear but just realize and take into consideration that any behavior he exhibits before marriage will only intensify after. Make him get that in check before you say “I Do” in order to give you both a fighting chance. You deserve the best. Sometimes we can’t see the whole picture because we are too close to it, like a mosaic sometimes you have to take a step back to see what the issue is. Good luck sweets. I wish you the best of everything.
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  • Stephanie
    Just Said Yes May 2021
    Stephanie ·
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    Thank you for your reply Samantha I am going to seek counseling for both of us. I respect her decision and hope she can still be my friend.
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  • Stephanie
    Just Said Yes May 2021
    Stephanie ·
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    Thank you so much for your response Chenel, we are going to get counseling. I respect my friend's decision but I hope she can come around and still be my friend. Praying for wisdom. God bless
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  • Stephanie
    Just Said Yes May 2021
    Stephanie ·
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    AMEN


    PRAYING FOR WISDOM AND DISCERNMENT. GOD BLESS YOU.
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  • Stephanie
    Just Said Yes May 2021
    Stephanie ·
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    Thank you so much for your reply Connie,
    We plan to seek counseling for both of us. I respect my friend's decision although I hope she changes her mind or at least can still be my friend.
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  • Stephanie
    Just Said Yes May 2021
    Stephanie ·
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    Thank you for your input marion, He apologized to me and admitted he overreacted about nothing. He still wants to apologize to her in person but she is not responding. We are going to see counseling because he definitely has a temper sometimes I think it's bipolar. I just hope she can still be my friend.
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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2022
    Samantha ·
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    Best of luck!
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