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Savvy July 2021

Bridesmaid dresses help!

Ingrid, on March 25, 2021 at 3:57 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 9

So a while ago I met with all my bridesmaids to talk about dresses. We ended up deciding we would get dusty sage on Azazie and they would all choose which dress they would wear. I am fine with the color, it is very pretty but I was never a 100% sure about it.. Let's just say the dresses in Azazie don't really get my attention.

So I kept asking the girls every once in a while if they got the dress or if they had an idea of which one they would get and all of them told me they were still looking. SOOO today, I found a website with dresses that I LOVE and are the same prices as the ones in Azazie. I immediately texted the bridesmaids group chat to see if they ordered a dress and most of them said no, so I assumed none of them did... I showed them the pictures of the dresses and they all loved them! They not only liked them better than the ones in Azazie but they even thought those dresses were better sizes and lengths. I got really excited and thought we could go ahead and get those instead. But then one of the bridesmaids said she ordered her Azazie dress a while ago and she is supposed to get it in a week or so... Do you think it would be rude to ask her if she can return it? Or should I just stick with our original plan with Azazie? If we decide to go with the new dresses the website says they would get them in a week, and I think that is perfect because they would have plenty of time to fix whatever needs to be fixed (wedding is in July 23). But it we stick with Azazie, the girls will have to get them ASAP because website says it takes minimum 9 weeks...

What do you all think?

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Latest activity by Ingrid, on March 25, 2021 at 4:26 PM
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    Can she return the Azazie dress? If not, then you should pay her the cost of it or pay for the alternative dress. It’s not fair on her to end up paying for two dresses because you changed you mind. But assuming you’re good with that, I see no reason why you should stick with Azazie if you’d prefer the alternative.

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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
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    What is the website of the new dresses out of curiosity?

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  • Lisa
    Legend July 2022
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    If she is able to return the Azazie dress and get all of her money back, then I don't see anything wrong with switching to the other dress! However, I would suggest that you cover the shipping costs for both ways on the Azazie dress (since she likely won't be refunded for any shipping costs, and she'll likely be responsible for return shipping).


    If she is not able to return the dress, you could either reimburse her for the total cost (dress + tax + shipping) and ask her to buy the other one, or just use the Azazie dresses. I don't think it's fair to ask her to pay for two dresses.
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  • JM Sunshine
    August 2020
    JM Sunshine ·
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    As long as she didn't get her dress custom sized from Azazie, she can return it hassle free (may have to pay shipping cost--which you might offer). I do not think it's rude to ask her to return it. If she did have it custom made, then you would probably need to offer to cover the cost of that dress so she can buy the one you prefer.
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  • Ingrid
    Savvy July 2021
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    Yes, I wouldn't make her pay. I was actually thinking that if she can return it then I would pay the shipping cost and whatever other extra stuff. I just didn't know if it would be rude to ask and make her return it. Maybe I just overthink too much..

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  • Ingrid
    Savvy July 2021
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    White Fox Boutique. They have some very nice formal dresses that look like Silk material (It isn't) The girls liked the ones that are a little longer than knee length.

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  • Lisa
    Legend July 2022
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    I don't think it'd be rude, especially since you'd be covering the shipping costs! Maybe double check that everyone is on board with the new dresses first, and then feel free to ask her to return the Azazie dress once she receives it.
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  • Ingrid
    Savvy July 2021
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    I will see if she is able to return it. I wasn't going to let her pay, I was already thinking on paying the shipping cost. I just didn't know if it was rude to ask.. But thank you!

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  • Ingrid
    Savvy July 2021
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    Thank you! Smiley smile

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