Bridesmaid Drama!!!!!!

If you don't want someone in your wedding and if you won't regret it later kicking her our then go ahead. I would not want someone standing on my side who isn't a good friend to me. Your day do what YOU wanna do!

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^^^ This.. My goodness. We can all read the first response, we don't need the same one copied and pasted for other comments.

Look, if you're cool with completely ending a relationship, then sure. Terminate her. My suggestion would be to directly confront her about this, though. Try to make amends and if she's not having it, doesn't sound like the relationship is going to make it that much longer anyway.

View Quoted Comment Thanks Kodi that's great advice

Haha Kind of hard when it keeps popping up as I scroll through the comments? I think you're the one that's so bothered since you're being rather snarky in most of your replies to the other comments.

View Quoted Comment Omg Bye Stephanie thank u for your tips once again lol

Does this mean you don't want her as a friend either? Because if someone said hurtful rude disrespectful things about me and felt they weren't wrong, I wouldn't consider them a friend. I wouldn't want to be around them. Call her, say your peace and move on .

View Quoted Comment Wait...you don't like to argue? Your responses to this post beg to differ. I'm sorry, I know wedding planning stresses us all out. I really do hope everything works out. Do you want to end the friendship? Then it's fine to have ber not be in the bridal party anymore. But, prepare for drama.

Are you her boss? I'm confused.

I have a really good idea why you are having problems with this BM.

View Quoted Comment ^yesssss!!!! I’m glad someone said it!!

I think if you ask a friend to be in your wedding, and then you ask her NOT to be in your wedding any longer, you are ending that friendship permanently.

I guess you need to ask yourself if the "disrespect" was friendship-ending. If it was, then you know what to do. If it is something you can talk out, and work through, then you could save the friendship and the bridesmaid.

I think those are your options.

Termination? Oh, man I wonder what her termination package looks like...

Your seem really heated. Cool off and talk with her when you are calm.

If you choose to kick her out of the wedding, be prepared to absolutely ruin your relationship.

To answer the question posted, I have no "grounds for termination" because I don't view friendships as business relationships. I talk to my friends and discuss problems when they arise.

Was she this way before you asked her to be a bridesmaid? Was it only after that she started talking behind your back? You both sound really young. Can't you be an adult and just talk to her? Take her out for a drink and find out what's going on. Don't stomp your foot and demand an apology, just listen. If she's been a good friend up until this point, and I'm assuming that she has since you asked her to stand up beside you, then treat her like she's your good friend and talk to her.