So I might be a big baby right now but I could use some support or advice if anyone has dealt with this before.
So today I got a text from one of my bridesmaids, that her and her husband (groomsman) have to drop out of the wedding. I asked her a little bit before she had her son, and in November she suddenly gave birth to a super premature baby. This caused him to struggle with his health and he spend the first 6 months living in the hospital. She has been one of my best friends for the past 8 years and her husband and my fiance became super close so there was no doubt at all in our minds we would want them in out wedding. She texted me stating due to financial stress they are dropping out of the wedding.
I do understand that. I really do. I know that it is family first and that priorities means my wedding is last. I am still really sad though. The first thing is that it was done in a text which hurts she didn't try to call me or talk to me in person. Second is when I responded that I understood that still I am sad I never got a reply.
I don't want to seem selfish I am just so sad about it. It meant so much to have her with me but I get that life has its way of getting in the way of things I just am hurt and just don't want this to ruin my friendship.
If anyone has an advise on how to get over this. (Again I am not mad just a bit hurt)
Thanks! Happy Tuesday!
