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MrsBean
Savvy November 2022

Bridesmaid Advice!

MrsBean, on July 30, 2022 at 12:45 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 22

2 of my girls in the bridal party, this includes MOH, have not purchased their dresses or even put effort toward finding the dress they should wear for the ceremony. I've sent links, I've sent reminders, and I'm getting push-back from MOH with an excuse of "money issues". As someone who sees MOH...

2 of my girls in the bridal party, this includes MOH, have not purchased their dresses or even put effort toward finding the dress they should wear for the ceremony. I've sent links, I've sent reminders, and I'm getting push-back from MOH with an excuse of "money issues". As someone who sees MOH daily, I know that's an excuse and it's pure laziness! How do I encourage my girls to get their crap together and start taking this seriously? We're almost to double digits, so there is time, but I'm a planner (and a worrier), and I'm aware of possible shipping delays. If my other bridesmaid can get her dress in the first 3 months of planning, so can they! But that's just an opinion! Smiley xd


Thanks in advance for the advice!

22 Comments

  • Jacks
    Champion November 2054
    Jacks ·
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    I understand your feelings around this, but this truly isn't something you can control. As such, stressing about it isn't going to serve you well. To be fair, from their perspective, it feels like they have lots of time to nail down a dress before your wedding.

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  • Julija
    Expert October 2023
    Julija ·
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    Thankfully I’m in a position where I only have 2 girls and to avoid this very thing I’m buying their dresses. They know that when I go to put in the order if they don’t tell me the style and size they want they’re gonna get stuck with whatever I choose (we have drastically different tastes in cloths).
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