Hi Ladies... My wedding date is right around the corner (9/7/19). One of my bridesmaids and my FH groomsman (best friend for 10+ years). Me and the BM are friends through our hubbies friendship. So when I asked it was an immediate decision because we are all family.
Fast forward my BM and Groomsman are not in a good place and they are working on things. The BM dropped out of my Bachelorette party the same day we got the bridesmaid dresses. It is so unclear what the plans are because they are taking things day by day.
If she chooses to not be in the wedding it will be 7 girls to 10 guys in stead of 8 girls to 10 guys which I only wanted to double walk the MOH's (2 of them).
I have a girl from work that we are friends and kind of fell off for a little bit. But we have had conversations and we are back on track. I feel like there is so much going on and I don't know if I should keep everything the same or have my coworker fill in. I am okay asking her or keeping her as a guest.
The small twist if I don't ask the co worker she may be upset, because I asked another co worker and she has NO idea that the other one was asked.
any insight is much appreciated 
