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Ella Marie
Devoted May 2019

Bride/groom Gift Etiquette

Ella Marie, on March 7, 2018 at 5:31 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 29

So my fiancé and I were talking, we don’t think we’re going to gift each other something the day of our wedding. Is that ok!? I mean we’re paying for a destination wedding! We were thinking of instead hand written notes? Has anyone not done gifts?
So my fiancé and I were talking, we don’t think we’re going to gift each other something the day of our wedding. Is that ok!? I mean we’re paying for a destination wedding! We were thinking of instead hand written notes? Has anyone not done gifts?

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  • Heather
    Devoted June 2018
    Heather ·
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    We probably won't be doing gifts either, just nice cards to each other. We are leaving shortly after on a once in a lifetime honeymoon trip so that's our gift to each other, time alone making memories!

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  • A
    Savvy March 2018
    Ashley ·
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    I’m still trying to decide what I’m going to get mine!!!! And we have 16 days alway 😬😱
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  • Orchids
    Master March 2018
    Orchids ·
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    I was going to get him something, but he found a photo of it that I left out and let me know that he'd rather not do day-of gifts, so we're skipping them.

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  • Sydnie
    Dedicated July 2019
    Sydnie ·
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    Do It! He'll love it if it's you. Smiley smile I recently got the guts to buy lingerie and he was happy I got it for him. Smiley smile
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  • K
    Devoted July 2018
    Kena ·
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    I believe that's a personal preference. Definitely not necessary but a hand written note gives a romantic personal touch
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  • Miaaa
    Super January 2018
    Miaaa ·
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    We didn't do gifts. We decided our wedding and honeymoon were gift enough lol. Neither of us loves to shop for gifts.

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  • Ashley
    VIP December 2018
    Ashley ·
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    I’ve never heard of exchanging gifts- for sure not necessary 😊
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  • lilchameleon
    Expert April 2019
    lilchameleon ·
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    We hardly ever do gifts to each other for anything. Christmas and birthdays we usually skip gifting each other to save money, so I expect we will do the same for wedding gifts dealio as well.
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  • PrincessLawrence
    VIP June 2018
    PrincessLawrence ·
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    Thank you for writing this an asking I was just wondering as I was kind of upset my FH didnt want to do but I am writing him a little book on reasons I want to marry him and I think I am going to do a boudoir so those are gifts enough

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