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April
Devoted December 2012

Bride & Groom Reception Etiquette?

April, on July 1, 2012 at 9:14 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 26

Hi All! Went to a beautiful wedding over the weekend. However, the reception was outdoors and it was 110 degrees! UGH! There was a tent and a band. Very nice. The lovely couple showed up and had their 1st dance... gorgeous... and then they disappeared into the inside portion on the venue and we...

Hi All!

Went to a beautiful wedding over the weekend. However, the reception was outdoors and it was 110 degrees! UGH! There was a tent and a band. Very nice. The lovely couple showed up and had their 1st dance... gorgeous... and then they disappeared into the inside portion on the venue and we never saw them outside again. The inside portion of this venue was only large enough to hold 30-40 people and there were over 200 guests. When we started to leave, after sweating like a hog in a formal dress under a tent for 2 hours, I had to track down the Bride and Groom inside to wish them well. They both seemed a bit bothered by this and acted as if they did not have 5 seconds to spare for me say "It was a lovely Ceremony and we wish you well".

How are you supposed to behave at a reception? I am looking forward to seeing everyone and making the rounds to say "Hello!" and "Thanks for celebrating with us!". Isn't this the proper thing to do?

Thoughts?

26 Comments

  • Soon to be mr K
    Expert June 2013
    Soon to be mr K ·
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    At least give everyone some face time. I don't mean that you have to stop and talk to everyone, just make sure that everyone can see you and that you haven't just left. I would feel like "they have all the people they care about inside. We were just invited in hopes of getting a good gift. we don't really matter enough."

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  • Amanda
    VIP October 2012
    Amanda ·
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    We are having a receiving line at the church, but after we are done eating we are going to cut the cake so people can have it right away and then we plan on going around and talking to everyone and thank them for coming. People usually spend a lot of money to come to your wedding and buy you a gift or give you money at least you can do is say goodbye and thank them for coming. I know how this is though we went to a wedding reception indoors and the bride took off outside and she was in the photo booth a lot with other people while the groom went around and thanked everyone. I was also at another wedding that the bride looked at a couple of guests and would not say anything to them even though they were standing there waiting for her.

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  • WasSoon2BMrsSmith
    Master September 2010
    WasSoon2BMrsSmith ·
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    Exactly why I wanted under 100 people, cause I knew I would be annoyed if I had to go around to over 200 people and make small talk. Hitting 8 tables isn't so difficult. Hitting up 20 tables half inside and half outside would be annoying.

    Im a strong believer of only inviting people I know personally and like nough to want to talk to. I hope this wasn't a good friend or a sibling.

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  • Amanda
    Master July 2012
    Amanda ·
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    That was extremely rude. You don't do that to your guests. Nor do you put them outside in extreme temperatures.

    We are going to go around to each table and greet our guests at the reception. We have a small group, so it will be do-able for us.

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  • Tiffany M. ( Tiffany P.)
    Master August 2012
    Tiffany M. ( Tiffany P.) ·
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    My parents went to a wedding this weekend. Reception was indoors and the bride & groom still did not come to every table to say hello. My mother of course sent me an email about the good & bad of the wedding since ours is coming up shortly. She definitely wants us to make it to each table, which we were planning on doing anyway.

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  • Ris Future Mrs. Logan
    Super May 2014
    Ris Future Mrs. Logan ·
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    My future hubby is a living Wookie. Anything above 65 degrees and he starts roasting. So to keep things comfortable, we're having the reception indoors with ac (hopefully) and only the ceremony is outdoors. The ceremony is beside a lake though and in the springtime. Around here with possible temps of 115? even I would go nuts with the heat!

    However, every wedding I've been too that's produced the whole nine yards, the bride and groom at least attempted to make rounds to their guests and graciously accepted congrats. Sounds like that couple shouldn't have put on a grand display if they wanted it to be just them.

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