Let me start by saying I am not planning my own shower or bachelorette party. Three of my bridesmaids are planning the shower and the other three are planning the bachelorette party (all offered and I’m very thankful). They all have very busy schedules for the 3 months before the wedding. After looking over their schedules they realized they all have August 27th free so they want to do both parties the same day. The shower from 12-2 pm and the bachelorette starting around 5:00 pm. I plan on inviting around 25 to the shower and about 10-13 girls for the bachelorette many of whom would be invited to both parties. Also FH’s bachelor party would be the same night.
I am fine with the parties being on the same day but also worried that things could get hectic and people get tired. They are keeping everything a surprise so I have no idea what we would actually be doing. Is there any etiquette saying you can’t have both parties the same day? Also any tips appreciated.