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Bridal party

Jessica, on June 23, 2019 at 3:35 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 6
Is it okay to have more groomsmen than bridesmaids.... one bridesmaid dropped out.... meaning one maid of honor and 2 bridesmaids on my side while his has 1 best man and 3 groomsmen... if all the men show up....

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Latest activity by Emily, on July 9, 2019 at 12:45 PM
  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
    Jessica ·
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    I don’t think it’s a problem and seems to be fairly common to have uneven bridal parties. To me, it’s more about quality of the relationships than the number of people. If my FH’s best friend can’t make it from South Korea where he’s living we’ll probably have an uneven bridal party too.
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  • Cheryl
    Expert November 2020
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    I totally second this quality of relationships comment. When you look back on your photos, you are going to want to see people that you do not have negative feelings towards and typically we are more forgiving of the behavior of family and decades old friends. I wouldn't back fill the slot unless there is someone super deserving of it.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Yes I always tell people don't add more just cause you have uneven amounts. You don't want it to seem like that person is a filler.
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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    Hi there Jessica!

    It's 100% ok to have more groomsmen than bridesmaids.

    It's more important to have people you're close to standing by you. If this results in uneven numbers, so be it Smiley smile

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    We have 1 more GM than BM! I was in a wedding last year with 2 more BM than GM! I never notice and think it's totally fine.

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  • Emily
    Dedicated August 2019
    Emily ·
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    Uneven is fine. But, if it bothers you, just add another bridesmaid! That really is terrible she dropped out, people should not commit unless they are certain they can follow through. So sorry!

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