Bridal party expenses

I don't think you are doing too much at all. Are you also buying their bridal gifts? Or no, since you are paying for the other things?

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I think that you are doing more than enough then!

View Quoted Comment Oh I’m glad!!
There’s people telling me I’m doing too much

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No you are fine, its not like you have a huge bridal party! I'm not paying for hair, but I am also paying for my bridesmaids robes, gifts, and makeup (and I have 6).

I think what you're doing is more than generous.

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You are being generous which is never a bad thing.

Well, “doing too much” is subjective. If this is what you’d like to gift your bridal party, then go for it!

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Pretty sure my bridal party appreciates this

View Quoted Comment No, this is definitely not their bridal gift, they’ll have the appropriate one but I feel like if I can do this for them why not

Sounds fine to me !

I don't understand why you are worried you are doing too much. These are your dearest friends and you are buying them accessories/hair & makeup services for your wedding. The only suggestion I have is to make sure you check with each of them privately about their budgets before you choose a dress. The money you're planning to spend doesn't mean they can automatically all afford an expensive dress (plus alterations), shoes, etc.

I don't think what you're planning on is too much--it's pretty standard. I did basically the exact same thing, with the addition of a piece of jewelry for each girl as a gift (I also paid for their hair/makeup and getting ready attire, but I didn't count these as gifts because they were for the wedding and we all know the getting ready attire is for that photo opp). I think what you're doing is spot-on, but I would add another small gift in there if you have the means to do so

View Quoted Comment I’ve done that already and they are ok with whatever I choose. I’m not worried about doing too much. I love these girls and would only get the best for them. I’ve been told Im doing too much that’s why I’m asking for opinions. That does not mean I think the same way I do because honestly if I could I wouldn’t let them buy a single thing

View Quoted Comment That’s exactly what I’m thinking. Getting them each a piece of jewelry that goes with the wedding theme and somehow match me at the same time.

I don't think their is a "too much" for paying for bridesmaids & groomsmen since they typically take several days off and pay for pre-wedding events & wedding stuff. The robe for the day of & flower crown & hair/makeup is for the wedding more than it is a gift to them, so asking them to pay for it would be odd (in my opinion). I'd make sure to include a nice thank you note and a gift to each girl too.

View Quoted Comment Flower crown and makeup and hair I didn’t consider it as a gift, i want them to look a certain way that is why I’m paying for it. And as for the gift yes, I will give each girl a piece of jewelry and a bouquet of flowers with a thank you note. The only reason I ask for opinions is because I’m being told by some people that “I’m doing too much”