Bouquet and garter toss

If you don't want one, dont do one. Yes people still do it, but it's up to you. (I'm not doing it because I think it's awkward too)

We are skipping both!

People still do it. I plan to do it at mine.

ETA: OP you don't have to do it, its not a requirement.

Yes i have to have them in my wedding.

We skipped both. They weren’t missed.

I skipped both of them. I think they're cheesy. Do what you want.

I didn't do it. I think it's cheesy, sexist, and uncomfortable.

We're skipping both, feels awkward to me too. If you want to skip them, you can. They are not a requirement.

My coworker chose not to do it because most of her friends were already married and she felt like it would be too awkward for her small group of single friends. Personally, I'm doing it. I think it's fun activity to grab people's attention.

We plan to skip any traditions that don't feel right to us and that includes the garter/bouquet toss. I've never been to a wedding where people enjoyed it and I know as a guest I find it awkward and I kinda dread it.

We're skipping both too. I absolutely hate those traditions and feel that it disrupts the party. Sooooo nope!

Planning on skipping both because I feel like they are so awkward. It's completely up to you though on if you do/don't want it

Skipped them both.

I think i want to do a bouquet toss but we're skipping the gartner toss

It is still done. But we are not doing either. I feel like it makes everyone feel awkward

We are doing Bouquet toss, skipping garter

Skipping both - I don't think any girls in my circle enjoy doing the bouquet toss -- I know I only reluctantly participate if there are only a couple people out there and I don't want the bride to feel bad. The garter toss is icky to me.

We are skipping both, but I love watching it done at other weddings.

We skipped both. in fact we skipped a lot of the "expected" things and it was all good. i've only been to like 1 wedding where they did the toss.

People still do them but many couples skip. I've been to some weddings with neither, but I'd say the majority of weddings I've been to just had a bouquet toss. I've only experienced a couple of garter tosses in real life.

We're not doing either. I find the garter business uncomfortable. I WOULD do a bouquet toss BUT there are hardly any single women. And the women who ARE aren't particularly thrilled about it, so I surely don't intend to single them out and call attention to it.

ETA: agree about knowing your audiences. We're older. If all of our invites come, there will literally be FIVE single females. At least two of them being lovely ladies who are very concerned to be pushing 40 and single and coming to terms with the thought that they may never have kids. So for MY crowd, seems rude.