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Becoming a Mrs
Master July 2016

Both parents walk me down the aisle?

Becoming a Mrs, on January 23, 2016 at 9:04 PM Posted in Planning 0 32

I'm really torn on if I should have both my parents walk me down the aisle. My dad I haven't always had the best relationship. It's gotten better but my mom is amazing and has always been there for me, still to this day. She is paying for 95% of the wedding. My dad is helping a little bit which we were all shocked about. I wouldn't tell my dad he couldn't since I'm his only daughter. But I'm torn if I have my mom walk me down too or if I have her walk down the aisle with my daughter. If she doesn't walk my daughter my grandmother who is my best friend will do it. Is it weird to have both parents walk me down the aisle? Will it look like too much?

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Latest activity by Jessica Rajs, on January 25, 2016 at 12:04 PM
  • Christina
    Master October 2015
    Christina ·
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    No, it won't look like too much!I did it and my mom appreciated it!

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  • MCB1218
    Devoted March 2016
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    Go for it! It's your wedding and you've gotta do what's good for you! I bet your mom will really appreciate that.

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  • Delisa
    Master July 2016
    Delisa ·
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    Both my parents are walking me down the aisle!

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    I think you do what you want. I have a lot of brides/grooms who have both parents walk them down the aisle. You do what works for you and your relationship.

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  • Holly
    VIP July 2016
    Holly ·
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    I'm planning on walking with both parents! They both raised me-- it doesn't make sense for one to just be sitting all along and have the other one part of the procession.

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  • FutureJenS
    Devoted April 2016
    FutureJenS ·
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    I have a very similar situation with the relationships between me and my parents. I'm having both my parents walk me down the aisle.

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  • Private User
    VIP August 2014
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    I had both of mine. So did my sister. So do a lot of brides I know. I always thought having your father only, wasn't being fair. And people insisting that only a man can do it sounds sexist.

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  • kahlcara
    Master August 2013
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    Go for it! Both of my parents walked me.

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  • Ostrichka
    VIP February 2016
    Ostrichka ·
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    I'm having both parents walk me, not only because it's fairly common in Jewish families to do this, but also because I don't like the idea of being "given away." This is more like a recognition of where I came from and to honor my parents.

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  • Lovie
    Dedicated June 2016
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    I actually have 3 people walking me. My father is walking me 6 rows then we'll hug and he'll pass my hand to my mothers, then she will walk me another 6 rows to my step dad who actually raised me along with her and he will do the final walking me down to meet with my FH. Seems like a lot but that was the only way I could incorporate all three of the people that raised and protected me prior to meeting my fiancé. I may also pass flowers to grandparents during the ceremony as tribute as I am leaving an empty space with flowers for my grandma who passed.

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
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    I had both my parents walk me down the aisle. I am very close with my mom and have a great relationship with both of my parents (they are still married).


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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
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    I had both my parents walk me down the aisle. I am very close with my mom and have a great relationship with both of my parents (they are still married).


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  • Lovie
    Dedicated June 2016
    Lovie ·
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    Annakay511 I know the post is about your parents but my goodness you look stunning. That dress fits you beautifully. You look really happy.

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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
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    It is actually a Jewish custom to have both of the bride's parents walk the bride down, and both of the groom's parents walk the groom down--and people from other religions have been borrowing that custom. It makes it more an acknowledgement of your origins, and involves less sexism than having just the bride escorted by just her father.

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  • Possum
    Master December 2015
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    I had both. I loved it. It meant so much too have them both there with me.

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  • Possum
    Master December 2015
    Possum ·
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    Is from the back. It's the best I have on my phone.


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  • RJmargo
    Master May 2016
    RJmargo ·
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    Both parents are walking me down the aisle. As others have said, it is Jewish tradition to have both parents walk the bride down the aisle. We are having an interfaith wedding and this is one of the Jewish traditions that we are incorporating.

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  • materantiqua
    VIP December 2016
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    I'm having both do it for similar reasons. I don't think it would be too much.

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  • Becoming a Mrs
    Master July 2016
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    I'm glad there are so many people that do this! Now I just need to figure out when to ask her/tell her. I know she'll start to cry when I ask her lol.

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  • DJ
    VIP May 2016
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    My parents are divorced and my mom is definitely the one who raised me. I'm having them both walk me since I'm pretty sure that if I told my dad I would rather have just my mom, he might not show. The father/daughter dance is still his, but he has to share the walking me to the altar part.

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