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Fireworks WIFE
VIP July 2013

Blanket Seating for Ceremony?

Fireworks WIFE, on February 7, 2013 at 12:16 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 36

Okay, I just went through tons of old post on here about standing ceremonies and how badly they are reacted to, that is NOT what I'm saying here.. my idea is blanket/picnic style seating. This is not my only option and if you all think its an awful idea I'll nix the idea. I saw this picture (below)...

Okay, I just went through tons of old post on here about standing ceremonies and how badly they are reacted to, that is NOT what I'm saying here.. my idea is blanket/picnic style seating. This is not my only option and if you all think its an awful idea I'll nix the idea.

I saw this picture (below) and my heart did a little flutter. How precious is that set up? I know that for a formal event this is a big no-no (dresses and grass stains and highheels oh my!) But my event is on the 4th of July, reception is a Lobster Boil/claim bake - eat with your hands and drip butter, wear whatever you feel like event. Could this work for me in my situation? My first thought was I could have a little picnic basket at each blanket with some old fashion glass pop bottles, or maybe we'd bottle our own drinks? And then watermelon on a stick maybe.. just to get the theme involved.. I really like the idea but don't want to get caught up in the cuteness and be ridiculous - Opinions?



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  • Tatiana
    VIP September 2013
    Tatiana ·
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    As long as the ceremony is not too long, I think it is a really cute idea! Im not a fan of the idea for the reception, as it is too much time on the ground, and too difficult to eat, but I think the idea for a ceremony is unique and adorable.

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  • Spicydeene
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    Spicydeene ·
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    I didn't see anyone else bring this up so I have to do it..

    What about rain and the possible summer storm? You have to think of a back up plan.

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  • Catherine
    Super October 2013
    Catherine ·
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    I think this is fantastic!

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  • Fireworks WIFE
    VIP July 2013
    Fireworks WIFE ·
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    Spicy - My parents own a 'community center' builing about 15 minutes away which is our backup plan but thanks for covering my butt Smiley smile Smiley smile

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  • Fireworks WIFE
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    Fireworks WIFE ·
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    Awe Amy!! You just gave me a huge smile! You're all invited! the more the merrier lol

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  • Beth
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    Beth ·
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    I have this picture pinned, too. So cute. I think it would be great for your wedding.

    My venue doesn't have quite enough chairs for me to set up my whole ceremony and have the reception set, so I may do straw bales for some of the younger crowd, rather than rent new chairs or make everyone stand.

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  • Venetrice
    Devoted September 2013
    Venetrice ·
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    How about you have your guest bring Lawn chairs. But your idea is SOOO awesome. and uniqe. I NEVER would have came up with that idea.

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  • kscha925
    Super May 2014
    kscha925 ·
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    One of my options is a picnic type of wedding, but I would like to do more of a table set up.

    Personally, I think the blanket picnic ideas are cute, but I feel like they could get costly with all the baskets and the food and the bottles of drinks. If you have the budget though, it would probably be a lot of fun, especially on the 4th of July.

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  • Beth
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    Beth ·
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    Do you have a freecycle in your area? I would put out a request for picnic baskets.

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  • Fireworks WIFE
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    Fireworks WIFE ·
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    Beth, I will have to look that up. I have a craigslist but I will look up freecycle, thanks!!

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  • Shaun Gray
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    Honestly, if it were any other day of the year, I'd say you were just trying to creatively come up with a way to nix chairs, and lol, even if thats your original thought, I LOVE the picnic setting for the ceremony since your wedding date is July 4th. We ALL associate that holiday with picnics. I think it would be a nice surprise for the guests, and a nice detail touch on your end.

    Couple things to watch out for:

    !)make sure they're nice quality blankets, your guests are probably wearing their best attire to your function make sure their clothes don't get ruined

    2) Think ADA. Are there any grandparents or other people with special situations coming to the ceremony? Make a section for them that doesn't look like they're shoved away from the actual festivities, you want them to enjoy the day as much as your other guests!

    I'm still really in love with your picnic blanket idea for a July 4th wedding ceremony!

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  • Fireworks WIFE
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    Fireworks WIFE ·
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    Shaun thanks so much! I'm going to invite you to connect just cause I always love your advice so darn much.

    I actually have chairs I could use for free so its not the cost, i just want my wedding to stand out (4 cousins got married last year!) I havent started looking into blankets yet, but my mom suggested comforters which I think is a good idea.

    Sadly both my grandparents are not longer with us, fiance's grandparents are the only elderly guests but I am thinking I will set out 20 or so chairs and people can feel free to use them if they have a medical condition I am not aware of.

    (hopefully they all get the drift not to wear super nice clothes (it'll be on my website) We are having lawn games and shooting off fireworks for the reception and we are eating shellfish with our hands lol Im classy and I know it!

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  • Shaun Gray
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    You've got the right idea! Just keep the theme consistent in your invites, website, word of mouth, and your guests will be prepared. I wouldn't wear my suit to a lobster boil, but you know what they say about us when we assume Smiley winking Please do connect with me! You're more than welcome to send me an email, write me a message on here, or like my firm's facebook page!

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  • Fireworks WIFE
    VIP July 2013
    Fireworks WIFE ·
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    There is a pavillion that shaded and there is a manor on the property where there are bathrooms Smiley smile

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  • krisalicious
    Master April 2012
    krisalicious ·
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    Love the lobster boil! But I would want a chair. Sorry.

    In theory I think it's cute, and I'll sprawl on a blanket at a music festival for days. I'm not old. Smiley smile But when I'm at a music festival I'm usually in a swimsuit, free to move around, and possibly not completely sober. Smiley smile At a wedding, where I'm sitting upright and still, dressed up a bit more and trying to hear/see what's going on? I want a chair.

    You could still incorporate the picnic theme if you have a little shaded tent nearby and have refreshments out before the wedding starts. Fruit skewers, little snacks, sodas/lemonade on ice, mini fans.

    Regardless, if the ceremony is out in full sun on July 4th, I'd set out lots of cool water bottles, program fans or just plain fans, maybe some parasols for shade, and also maybe buy a handful of those battery-operated mini mister fans. We take those to summer concerts, they're awesome.

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  • B
    Just Said Yes September 2018
    Brooke ·
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    I just came across this post and have a question on numbers. If you did end up doing this what was your blanket to guest ratio? Or what would you suggest?
    I’m doing something very similar, but am not sure how many blankets to have (we have about 100 guests).
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