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Arani
Just Said Yes August 2012

BLACK DRESS FOR THE BRIDESMAIDS??? DO OR DONT!

Arani, on November 17, 2009 at 4:41 PM Posted in Planning 0 40

I WANT MY BRIDESMAIDS TO WEAR BLACK AND PEOPLE ARE ALLREADY TALKING ABOUT HOW BAD AND DEPRESSSING IT WILL LOOK... IV SEEN ALOT OF BRIDESMAIDS WEARING BLACK AND I THINK IT LOOKS GREAT BUT I GUESS BEACUSE OF THE TRADITION IN MY FAMILY THEY NEVER SEEN THAT BEFORE... WHAT DO YOU THINK?

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Latest activity by Arron , on February 11, 2017 at 2:24 PM
  • Bayridgeqt
    Expert July 2010
    Bayridgeqt ·
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    Black is pretty especially if you have a brighter color of flowers to offset it. What are your wedding colors?

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  • Jessy
    Master May 2010
    Jessy ·
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    It can look really classy. Especially if you offset the black with accents of a color.

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  • southerngirl
    Super December 2009
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    Not a problem at all. Just has other colorful accents to go with it (e.g., flowers, shoes, hair accessories, sashes)

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  • Aussie Bride
    Master February 2010
    Aussie Bride ·
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    I think black on bridesmaids looks very classy and elegant. Remember its your wedding and should be how you want it. Ignore what people say because on the day it will look beautiful

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  • MRW82584
    Super July 2010
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    Well personally I think it would be depressing if everything in the wedding is black and kind of dark.

    But I think if the dresses are black but you have some other colors that are brighter and playful I think it would look very nice.

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  • Amanda D.
    Super July 2010
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    I went to a wedding once where the bridesmaids dresses were black, and each girl had the same pair of heels on, but all in different really bright colors. They also had a flower in their hair to match their shoes, and the groomsmen they were paired with had their tie match the girls' shoes! The girls' shoes were like a hot pink, electric blue, bright orange, sunshine yellow, etc. This would be super cute and because of the bright accessories, I don't think it'd be depressing at all.

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  • J.J
    Master September 2011
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    My bridesmaids are wearing black but the dresses will have a blue sash. I don't see anything wrong with them wearing black, but I can see where some people might think that.

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  • yadayada
    Master October 2009
    yadayada ·
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    I wore a black BM dress in a wedding I was in a few years ago and the dresses were beautiful, very elegant, and the wedding looked awesome. I have no idea if there were other colors since this was before I was engaged and paid any attention to the details at weddings, but I will say that the overall look was very nice!

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  • futuremrsmcdonald
    Devoted September 2010
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    My bm's are wearing black with a hint of purple either in a sash or in the flowers, but I say what the hey it's your wedding and I think that they would be beautiful in whatever color you choose.

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  • Charlotte
    Super June 2010
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    My BM are wearing black. It's actually these:

    http://www.amazon.com/Rockabilly-Ruffle-Sundress-Dress-Plus/dp/B000F74S38/ref=pd_sim_a_2/189-2054302-8007854

    In Black with these:

    http://www.payless.com/store/product/detail.jsp?skuId=073919070&productId=66096&subCatId=cat10276&catId=cat10088&lotId=073919&category=&catdisplayName=Womens

    for shoes.

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  • Charlotte
    Super June 2010
    Charlotte ·
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    And added bonus; if the dresses are black there's a chance they can wear them again! Smiley smile

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  • Amanda D.
    Super July 2010
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    Http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_j6MN9P-YWKs/SNKMXJJRC8I/AAAAAAAAAR8/Xv3ysyIxjyU/s400/Neon.bmp

    picture these shoes (not outfits!) with a black dress on each girl.....HOT!

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  • Former MDLS now Mrs. K
    Master October 2010
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    About a year ago I would not have thought black would be a good color to wear for a wedding party but I have since been to several photographer's websites where the bridesmaids and MOH have worn black and it looks soooo good. I say go with what you want!

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  • Shell
    Master June 2009
    Shell ·
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    Do it! black and white is always right! very classy. and if the family doesnt agree just pull the "its my wedding! and i'll do what i want" card :]

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  • mandi
    Expert March 2010
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    I think black dresses look great. Just think of it as an opportunity to show them how good it can look!

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  • Arani
    Just Said Yes August 2012
    Arani ·
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    THANK YOU EVERYBODY APPRICIATE YOUR ANSWERS... (AMANDA D.) I REALLY LIKE THAT IDEA I WILL TAKE THAT IN CONSIDERATION!!! THANKS!!!!! Smiley smile BUT I WAS THINKING BLACK WITH RED SHOES AND RED FLOWERS AND IF NOT THEN PINK BUT LIKE I SAID I REALLY LIKE THE DIFFERENT COLOR SHOES IDEA! Smiley tongue

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  • Rosie
    Devoted June 2010
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    Definitely a do! I was the moh for my friend and ours were black with silver accents. She made her colors black, white, silver, and red. It looked awesome! It was so easy to pick the dresses too. We just went to the formal wear section of a department store and looked at dresses they had a lot of, and then grabbed our sizes! Not to mention, I've worn that dress a few times since, for New Year's and banquets and stuff.

    Just tell your family that black is the new pink! lol

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  • Collette
    Dedicated August 2010
    Collette ·
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    I agree with everyone. I think black BM dresses are beautiful. My FH and I will both be wearing white, and the rest of the wedding party will be wearing black. Our colors are brighter (reddish orange and coral). I intentionally chose black because, one-everyone looks good in black, and two-I know the girls can wear it more than once. Go for it if you like it. It's your wedding, you should be able to do whatever you want.

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  • soon to be mrs hubbs
    Super September 2011
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    I like the black my aunt did black and apple two of us had on apple and two had on black it looked great together

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  • Katie Mc.
    Savvy June 2009
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    Mine wore black dresses that I let them pick out. They looked great! The flowers really popped out in the pictures. You could always add sashes and shoes to brighten up.

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