This is big and I don’t know what to do. I am a user here but I decided to make this anonymous because it’s a little too revealing for comfort I guess.
Long story short (as possible)
Our wedding is coming up very soon. (The date set here is also a lie; I’m sorry.) We still don’t know if my brother will be joining us in Cali for the wedding. He lives in the Midwest, where most of my family lives. My sister and her mom bought their whole family’s plane tickets and have booked hotel rooms and whatnot. He was asked to be a GM. I have given him tons of leeway on letting me know if he is coming because he called in December and told me that he was looking into long term rehab. I want his health more than I want him to be at my wedding. We lost our dad after a week long drug and alcohol bender and I can’t imagine losing my brother who has been an addict of both for nearly two decades. (He’s 11 years older than me. It’s not like he started as a preteen.)
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