Best way to communicate to BM

I'm a bride and I set up a secret FB group. I also have a secret Pinterest board to share ideas. My MOH and BM's exchanged phone numbers when they met in person just after dress shopping with me.

Hi Leslie! I've kept in touch with all my bridesmaids via email.

I haven't had to have much conversation with my bridal party. We all got together to look for bridesmaid dresses. If anyone has had any questions or concerns, they have just reached out to me directly. When my wedding countdown reached 30 days, I wanted to send out some basic information regarding jewelry, shoes, and the wedding day makeup/hair appointment so I sent out a group text. Some responded to the group text and one just responded to me in a private text.

I have a chat via Whatsapp with my BM. I admit we mostly just write about NWR stuff, but i ask for their opinions on decor or give them updates about the day of timeline. They also ask me stuff about their accessories and shoes and stuff there.

For the last two weddings I was in we had a secret FB group. One had a Pinterest board for suggestions too. So far I just have a group text with my girls. It may change as we go!

I just have a group text

Ugh. Don't do a group text! I was a BM recently and I swear my phone was just constantly blowing up. I personally prefer e-mail for group conversations

We have a group text with the groomsmen since theres a lot of them and they require a lot of coordinating. (theyre driving cross country together and staying at our house some of the nights.)

for the bridesmaids, ive just been individually texting them since my only wedding-related thing has been "pick out this type of dress" and "have you been measured yet?" b/c i was paying for the dresses myself

For the only bridal party I was in, email worked just fine.

I use email to contact them about BM stuff. Mostly dress info, but also to ask them if they wanted to get their hair and makeup done or not. I'll also email a general schedule for the wedding day. My MOH doesn't have Facebook, but we all check our email regularly

We have a secret Facebook group. Please don't do text, I was in a wedding and the bride communicated that way and it was a pain in the ass. My boss at my hospital wanted me to have my cell phone on vibrate in case she texted me and I would end up getting all these text messages about the wedding and then girls would comment on random shit. Facebook or email is a nice non-invasive way the people can check when it's convenient for them.

ETA: @ Amanda I feel your pain! The group text is the WORST!!

We all have iPhones, so I put everyone in a group message to send any information that I feel is important. However, whenever discussing budgets I text/call each of them personally.

ETA: It also depends on your Bridal Party. If they frequent Facebook or use their email daily, then sure you could go that route. However, my friends wouldn't see a message via email or FB for days, probably even longer.

I agree with WhatsApp

You can set up group chat along with voice messaging as well?

I set up a secret FB group. The group messaging/text thing got old quick, the FB group was the best way to go. I'm doing a destination wedding and two of them are out of the country and the others live in different states so it worked for us. It might be unnecessary for others and phone/email would suffice.

I texted them all individually for dress reminders and such. I didn't need a group for any other reason. If they had a question, they contacted me. I'm about to send an email with all the wedding day info to everyone in the wedding party.

I did a group text for a couple of things but for the most part I text my bms individually

The only time I needed to communicate with them for anything pertaining to the wedding was to make an appointment for dresses and to ask them each individually what they are comfortable spending for hair and makeup. I despise group texts and I never respond to them because they're annoying. I would just text each one when needed or call them.

Group text.... it's been working ever since the beginning.

We have a groupme that isn't used very often. Just when we were going dress shopping and we'd send the out of state girls pictures of their dress options so they could see. I also used it to get everyone's opinions on how they would like to wear their hair.

I have a group chat... I'm not going to be messaging too much. Just getting opinions, after the questions answered we don't talk on therr