Best silhouettes for hour glass shape?

I’m hourglass figure, same weight and height too! I found fit and flare was the best for my body type. The mermaid style made me feel too hippy, I ended up with a trumpet style fit and flare. I did also try a ball gown style, which was amazing, it was just too flashy for me. I did not like any A line styles.

Try a mermaid or fit and flare. I went against that because I have hips and butt for days and sadly I can easily look like a sausage lol. You will need to get alterations though which is another reason why I went against it but that is a nice silhouette and you should try it. My first dress was A line and my current one is ball gown. It will be easier on the day of if I gain a little weight which I do not plan to because weight goes to my hips first.

I'm about the same size as you (just one inch taller) and got an a-line dress. It's a less full a-line and might be better classified as a sheath, but I say try on an a-line and maybe some other silhouettes. Here's the one I got

https://www.davidsbridal.com/Product_tulle-a-line-wedding-dress-with-plunging-v-neck-swg722_a-line-wedding-dresses

I would just go try on as many silhouettes as you can and don't go into it with any preconceived notions. I had an image in my head of what I wanted (and what online told me would look best) and I got something totally different. It doesn't hurt to go to 2-5 salons and try as many dresses (shapes, necklines, colors, fabrics, etc.) as you can.

I'm more pear, but was surprised at how good trumpet silhouettes looked on my fuller bottom half. Might be worth a shot if you're up for showing off your figure.