So FH is dead set on me not cooking for our surprise wedding. He suggested we should just get bbq from our favorite restaurant and call it a day. Well that got me thinking, if we do the whole bbq thing then we may as well move the whole thing outside and tell people we're just having a bbq at a forest preserve. I found an awesome one by my mother's home that has a nice covered shelter with a bathroom and even is by a small lake, Pulaski woods. Only problem is that's as far as I've gotten lol Has anyone held a completely outdoor wedding or is planning one? Would it be bad of me to use the picnic tables that are there and just rent chairs for the ceremony? What do I do about tableware? He's fine with paper plates but idk if that is a bad idea. Since this technically is just supposed to be a simple family bbq I don't want to over do it but I still want to wear a nice dress. Any ideas on food decor games anything would be greatly appreciated! Oh an alcohol is allowed at this grove so an summer fruity drink I can make a ton of let me know!