Hi everyone! As I am starting to plan my wedding the biggest dilemma I have is about a bar. We are a young couple but by the wedding I will just be turning 20 and my fiancé will have just turned 21. His family are very much drinkers and my family are more like social drinkers. I know people expect a bar but my fiancé and I don't drink much anyways and we most definitely aren't loaded with money. Any advice or ideas?