I read through these forums religiously. I found some helpful things...and at times...not so helpful things. But anyone who has anxiety and is nervous about your big day...Just breathe. It will be beautiful no matter what. I DIDN'T have a DJ. I didn't do MOST of the normal reception traditions. We had a beautiful ceremony and a lovely formal sit down dinner. It was magical. I'm just here to tell you: DO WHATEVER YOU WANT. GET RID OF WHATEVER YOU WANT. IT IS YOUR DAY SO MAKE SURE ITS WHAT YOU WANT. EVERYTHING ELSE IS JUST FLUFF.
