Bachelorette Weekend-Mom or No Mom

Personally my mom is my best friend so she will be there 100% at mine! I suppose it depends on your relationship with her but I would totally invite mom!

Depends on what vibe you want and how close you are with your mom. I didn't have a formal bachelorette, I just ended up with separate visits or trips to see my bridesmaids at various times. So one trip was to a beach, but it was along with my MOH's kids and husband (and then me haha) so I basically just crashed their family trip. I would have been fine with my mom there. But a drinking (there was no drinking- she was pregnant again and breastfeeding), dancing bash I would not want my mom. But some people do crazy parties with their moms. Up to you.

This is totally up to you. If you're close with your mom and want her there, go for it.

I did NOT invite mine to my bachelorette party. She is not my friend lol.

No mom

I would invite my mom and her best friend we are all really close and they are FUN!!! but that's all up to you! you know your mom and her friends, will they enjoy it and contribute to the fun?

Nope.

Depends on what you're doing! Do you want her there? Are you prepared to invite FMIL too?

My mom is one of my best buddies for sure but i didn't want her to watch me get stoned on gummies all weekend because boundaries, so i didn't invite her. personally i've never been to a bach with a mom--i always felt like it would be kind of awkward. definitely depends on what you're doing.

First, are you comfortable with your mom being there? My mom stresses me out big time so it would be a hard no for me.

Second, is everyone who will be there also comfortable with your mom being there? Out of all my friends/relatives, I would only be comfortable going to a bach where one girl's mom would be there, and she would probably show up, buy us a round of drinks, and then leave.

If I were doing a trip, I'd 100% ask my Mom.

I think we're doing a spa day and she would hate that.

I am fairly certain that I won't be at my daughter's bach party. I have offered to bring her little sister (MOH) for day time festivities and then take Addie back to the hotel. If she were going to Cancun, I would so want to go.

I wouldn't. My mom doesn't drink and gives me the side eye after 2 drinks. I also don't think my friends would be as "free going" with my mom there, which is very respectable.

But Cancun is different, she doesnt have to go to all the events.

I mean, my mom is pretty fun and we are pretty good friends but I would never bring her along on my bach trip. I would be censoring myself too much and I'm afraid I wouldn't let loose like I want to. I want to enjoy my bach party - not worry that my mom is in a corner judging me!

It depends. I would have loved to have my mom for mine, but I don't think she would have enjoyed herself with what we did.

I probably won't. I told my mom if I did Vegas or a cruise, I would ask her and my aunt (they love to gamble, and cruises) but honestly if we do something else I don't think they would have as much fun. Right now the plan is something else so at the moment I'm not planning on her coming.

My mom and FMIL both came to my destination bachelorette party. It was a ton of fun. They got a separate room from the rest of us. We hung out most of the time, but her and FMIL stayed in while we went out on the town for a night. It was also awesome to give my mom a reason to get away, since she doesn't do that oftwn

My sister who is my MOH told me that her plan is to do a girl's night with me, her, and my mom. My sister and I are both very close to our mom so I'm really excited, since growing up it's not often that the three of us spend a lot of time together.

My mom is one of my best friends. While I wanted her there, i knew my friends would NOT be comfortable partying with her there. So I am doing no mom :-( lol she understood.

Nope.

I'm inviting my mom but she won't go. My FMIL is going, she's the one helping plan it all.