Bachelorette Party night before the wedding ?

We have a late in the day ceremony too, and we're just staying in the night before. I feel like this plan could go very badly - what if it goes later or you do drink too much? You'll have a busy, busy day the next day.

I don't think that's the best plan, even though your intentions are to go to bed early and not drink much, it doesn't always work out that way. There's no way your sister could come in for a weekend stay before the wedding?

Partying the night before can be dangerous. Going to bed late means puffy eyes. And if you're anything like me, anxiety and excitement about the next day will keep you up even later. I would try to at least give yourself a day of spa treatments and/or relaxation before the big day

Have your bachelorette party a different evening and spend the night before relaxing with your sister. We did that for my friend's wedding, and it worked out really well. She still got to spend time with everyone, but wasn't tired the next day!

I'm assuming if it's a spa day/night, you won't be drinking after. Because you're not supposed to take in toxins after just flushing them out with spa services. So I would say it's totally fine, it'd be nice and relaxing.

H and I had spa appointments the night before to be fully ready for the long day ahead.

ETA: I just reread that you said not drinking "much." Don't drink and spa.

My MOH is planning bachelorette activities for the day and night before the wedding (outside of the rehearsal and RD) because all of my BMs and I are coming in from out of town for the wedding. One BM is nursing a newborn and another will be 5 months pregnant so I'm pretty confident that things will be in the relaxing side.

It's actually now probably going to be just early lunch and spa thing. I just realized we got the rehearsal the same day. So that probably be during dinner time.either way I think it will work because I don't really drink and I'll be going to bed my usual time anyways 10-12 am. I'll sleep with eye mask or something to reduce puffiness too just incase

I'm so glad that we did not do anything after our rehearsal dinner the night before our wedding. I was exhausted. I was so happy to get to bed early and get a great night's sleep before the wedding (the best and longest day of my life).

I wouldn't want to. Mine was two days before and I was hung over until about noon the next day and at like 4 was our rehearsal and I just wasn't feeling it. All I wanted to do was be lazy and relax after a night out

I wouldn't.... what if you accidentally drink too much, or one of your BMs does? Lol seriously though.

Can you do it the day before the rehearsal? FH was the best man for his friend, and did it Thursday because we were coming from Philly to Atlanta. They were able to go out and have a good time and not worry about too much.

0/10 do not recommend. What about your rehearsal dinner? The last one I went to turned into a late night affair.

I'm having my Bachlorette 2weeks before the wedding and the rehearsal and dinner the night before.. So I know for sure i want have to worried about anything because you just never know

No! It's not worth the risk, unless you do a spa type thing.

Just doing a sex n the city moviethon night with drinks and relaxing with sister at hotel. After all the planning a relaxing night sound like tons of fun.

I'm not planning on drinking....maybe one drink. It's a spa thing and lunch then we do our quick rehearsal with just bridal party and dinner most likely.

Definitely not the best plan. Anytime my friends and I say we're having a calm early night, it turns into my friend drunk dancing on the table talking with a stuffed moose on the wall. Don't ask, New Years 2015 got weird. Anyways, I definitely wouldn't if you plan on drinking at all and being a functioning member of society the next day. You might be more laid back than my friends & I but calm early nights in never go like that.

I would not recommend it. You want to be well rested and relaxed on your wedding day.

Yikes!! I would definitely not do this! Its hard enough to get sleep the night before, I wouldn't want to add partying and alcohol to the equation.

Probably not the best idea!